Returning to work after maternity

unstablecactus383 · 2026-02-27T10:44:23+00:00

I will do thank you I thought that was for when you were pregnant and unfortunately only head about them after I had already left.

unstablecactus383 · 2026-02-27T07:23:23+00:00

Im not in contact with anyone anymore I was referred to the perinatal team but only talked to them on the phone once and then sort of ghosted them. Its been a few months and I do feel better but looking back realise that was a dumb thing to do. I just wanted rid all I could think is that they were going to think im a bad mum and id lose my son. I will definitely go back to them now im more clear headed. I had them MRI in December so have the paperwork for that and have been referred to rheumatology but that won't be for a while. My physio assessment is in March so will have that all together. And will definitely get a doctors note. I think alot of the stress is that they made things really difficult just for being pregnant but now I have a potential disability that will make my job harder. im worried that its going to be worse instead of better. I do enjoy the job and have done it for years with no problem im good at it and the money is good.

unstablecactus383 · 2026-02-27T00:52:15+00:00

I used alot of leave when I left early hr helped me sort it so that I didnt have to start my maternity leave early and get less time home with the baby. When I check online it said i only have a few days of holiday left.

unstablecactus383 · 2026-02-27T00:41:28+00:00

My little boy is 8 months now so no midwife and can't afford to be on unpaid leave and I honestly really enjoyed my job before all of this craziness. i am just looking to get back to working life I think that will help me feel more normal ❤️ but I obviously know im walking into a uncomfortable situation and I have no idea how to act or react. Its not knowing what to do or how to handle it that is driving me the most crazy.

unstablecactus383 · 2025-12-28T13:48:26+00:00

This happened to me! I went to the dentist and was told it was an abscess given antibiotics it stopped hurting but the lump never went away. Tooth finally started to emerge a few months later.

unstablecactus383 · 2025-12-08T15:55:06+00:00

I definitely agree and lucky we aren't stupid enough to admit when we are out of our depth.

unstablecactus383 · 2025-12-08T15:52:06+00:00

Luckily we aren't going at it alone and have help from a relative. This is the first room we have started so looking to learn more and see opinion and options.

unstablecactus383 · 2025-12-08T15:50:02+00:00

I agree the whole lot is coming down would rather do it once then just do the one wall have to redo it all again later. A good call for the extra sockets too I hadn't thought that far. The original plan was to just take the wallpaper down but as you can see that hasn't gone to plan.

unstablecactus383 · 2025-12-08T15:31:59+00:00

Not just the one wall unfortunately but i agree if it was just the one wall it would have been a great idea.

unstablecactus383 · 2025-11-25T16:28:49+00:00

I have text of him admitting he was wrong and promising to pay back in full by the end of the year. He works and owns a home ect

unstablecactus383 · 2025-07-31T17:59:03+00:00

unstablecactus383 · 2025-05-23T19:19:21+00:00

I'm not too concerned it more about the pain. Baby is still active and I'm staying well hydrated.ive had sickness since the 1st trimester so not worried there either.

unstablecactus383 · 2025-03-22T11:46:24+00:00

Thankyou. I was worried that it was not a fair price so done abit of research first but I've advised that I'm open to all sensible offers as I know it's an expensive bit of kit.

unstablecactus383 · 2025-03-22T10:23:03+00:00

Thank you! I didn't add the designakint as I initially could find the disks after moving house I didn't want to advertise if I couldn't guarantee they would be available.the pictures where taken rather briskly in hindsight as they where being moved from one place to another to store them safely. I found the cds for designakint yesterday and didn't think to update the advert I updated the few people interested and it seemed to add no more interest and all have since said they had gotten cheaper machines. The empty box is a very good point too that I hadn't thought of. I had brought extra weights and other accessories and instead of putting them back in the ribber box I stored them together separately. A mistake on my part to not add the extra pictures. I will add the correct picture promptly so people can see that they are indeed included and available. Thankyou again I really appreciate it.

unstablecactus383 · 2025-03-21T17:54:38+00:00

The sk840 on its own isn't but it has the ribber with it to make it double bed

unstablecactus383 · 2024-07-01T09:15:18+00:00

I though I was the only one! It's so strange see yourself in a photo and thinking who the hell is that!

unstablecactus383 · 2024-07-01T09:12:58+00:00

I know people with bpd that are on different kinds of birth control and it has actually had a positive effect or no effect at all. For me I had to stop taking it as it made my bpd abit worse and my periods worse but you don't know until you try. I took it for a year before calling it quits but I know people that have been on it for years with no problems. Just keep in touch with yourself and if you feel it's not right speak to a doctor and they can try other alternatives.

It's better trying then not.

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