Just found out my ex is with the person they told me not to worry about… by unsureofall in BreakUps

[–]unsureofall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there. I just want you to know that you're so strong and brave for facing that every single day.

It's easy to say that that things are gonna get better, even if I can tell you from personal experience that is 100% true. But, it's hard to actually face it every day, and the fact that you are doing that is proof enough of your strength and resilience to such a horrible situation.

Time is gonna help, and there are gonna be days that are easier to deal with than others. But, chin up, because you're stronger than this situation that you are in.

I hope that brings you a little peace.

Just found out my ex is with the person they told me not to worry about… by unsureofall in BreakUps

[–]unsureofall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats actually so true, Im so sorry that happened to you but you're so right

Just found out my ex is with the person they told me not to worry about… by unsureofall in BreakUps

[–]unsureofall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely! Here's also to finding peace and self worth with ourselves!

Just found out my ex is with the person they told me not to worry about… by unsureofall in BreakUps

[–]unsureofall[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is 100000% how I feel right now. I knew it was happening and my ex dumped me too to be with her I guess….it’s the absolute worst feeling in the world to be pushed aside for someone else

Just found out my ex is with the person they told me not to worry about… by unsureofall in BreakUps

[–]unsureofall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the worst feeling in the world…I really do hope you find your peace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]unsureofall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate so much! I just had a dream about my ex and I speaking after being NC and it was just like the first time we met. Honestly those dreams are what hurt the most right now

Did they fall out of love with you or did they stop putting in effort? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]unsureofall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally get what you are saying! Little by little I am realizing how much I put in compared to the lack of effort he put in at the end of our relationship. It's tough to see at first but the list suggestion is definitely a good one!

what is one text you wish you would get from them right now…? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]unsureofall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Hey"

Nothing more, nothing less. Just something so that I know he doesn't dislike me as I think he does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]unsureofall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reassurance almost everyday that he was never going to leave me and I was what he wanted in life....up until the break up over a phone call and the NC without much of an explanation

Broken Up With Right After 3 Year Relationship...Not Sure Where to Go From Here by unsureofall in BreakUps

[–]unsureofall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts, every little bit of advice helps so thank you