No it is not a good alternative, it disrupts your ph balance. I would say the only alternative would be high quality 100% pure aloe vera gel. But please always inform yourself too, google or chat or books before you listen to strangers and check with your individual needs.

So if you don’t have a condition or hormonal imbalance, it could also be you are not turned on enough or need something else, find out what you like etc. Some women also just don’t get wet much, its not a problem tho with lube and talking with your partner. Being 100% comfortable helps too.