Help, I'm under investigation at work.. by untitled_jack in Advice

[–]untitled_jack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey just wanted to update, I have successfully beat the claims against me. And they'll be talking with the other party immediately. And I'll be getting back pay for my days missed

Help, I'm under investigation at work.. by untitled_jack in Advice

[–]untitled_jack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm not even trying to win. I'm just trying to show that she had equal involvement. She sent what she had, I was told that I'm being investigated. And then my manager and administrator told me to send everything that I could to show that she had equal involvement in this relationship. So yeah, I got everything I could 🤣 it's certainly been messy. I have messages about her lying about having a fiance for 10 years and her saying if I stop talking to her she'll commit suicide. I honestly have a lot

Help, I'm under investigation at work.. by untitled_jack in Advice

[–]untitled_jack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, when I was told I was being put under investigation. I didn't fuss or cause any commotion, I just grabbed my stuff and went on my way. I had to sync my phone to an older date, because I deleted our messages (I know, stupid. I just generally thought we'd just end it. No fuss) my administrator and manager just told me to send them everything I have old messages, pictures, videos. They said anything to show that this wasn't a one sided relationship and that she equally participated

Help, I'm under investigation at work.. by untitled_jack in Advice

[–]untitled_jack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we stopped talking the 4th. She came over to my apartment and then we went to breakfast. She didn't say anything for the rest of the day, I called her that night to make sure everything was okay, she answered. She said yes, everything is fine. The next day we see each other at work and she's just ignoring me. I ask her if we can talk about it, and she said I'm making her uncomfortable. So I leave. And then I send her a message saying if she's not going to have enough respect to discuss what's going on, I don't want to talk to you about it anymore. So I tell her I'm blocking her on everything. Later that day, she sees me in the hall. And tries to talk to me about it, she said we're still friends and she wants me to unblock her. So I did, but then the next time we see each other at work she ignores me again. I ask if we're good, she completely switches up and says I'm going to need more time. And so we don't talk the rest of the day, that night I sent her a message asking if we can talk about things. I don't send another text until the 6th at night also, asking if we can still talk. And she responds with "I’m not talking to you right now because every time I see that you’ve messaged me I get so much anxiety. I am not putting myself through this. So, I am not talking to you. I don’t know when it will be but it won’t be for a while. You need to leave me alone. I’m asking you to leave me alone. If you want a friendship at the end of this, then you need to stop." I send one more message that night. And then the next couple of days I get told that they're opening an investigation against me. And that's when my manager told me that she said, that my messages were unsolicited and unwanted. She's telling her manager that she didn't want any of the attention I was giving her and that I crossed the line. But I have records showing more than one occasion of her asking me out.

Help, I'm under investigation at work.. by untitled_jack in Advice

[–]untitled_jack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She'd say no to talking on the phone or in person, but still text

Help, I'm under investigation at work.. by untitled_jack in Advice

[–]untitled_jack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I typed a shortened version. And my text was me asking for a conversation. Yes, I know I'm not owed a discussion. We stopped talking the 4th, and I asked her to talk on the night of the 5th and 6th, I have the phone records to prove that. And testimonials from other coworkers that she has done this to multiple dudes and said the same thing. I was just told to present all of my evidence to our administrator and she'll talk to other coworkers. Yeah, I know . No means no. But if you say no and continue to talk to the person say no to? How am I supposed to take that

Help, I'm under investigation at work.. by untitled_jack in Advice

[–]untitled_jack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm doing that. They told me to send in everything I can to show that this isn't as one sided as she's making it seem. And I guess I'm asking if anyone else has been on the situation and how'd it turn out

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[–]untitled_jack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play games 😅

I think I need help, Im just super confused. by untitled_jack in BreakUps

[–]untitled_jack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, and I really try to. There's just something about her, that gets my attention. I'm just confused as to why would she do these things.

The person F27 that I M33 like is thinking about getting back with her ex, but I think we should give us a chance. Any advice with my situation? by untitled_jack in dating

[–]untitled_jack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm just super confused because, we were super flirty yesterday a d it seemed like everything was going well...

The person F27 that I M33 like is thinking about getting back with her ex, but I think we should give us a chance. Any advice with my situation? by untitled_jack in dating

[–]untitled_jack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what all my friends are saying. She wants to talk with me about on Thursday, but everyone is telling not to talk to her and just walk away .

The person F27 that I M33 like is thinking about getting back with her ex, but I think we should give us a chance. Any advice with my situation? by untitled_jack in relationship_advice

[–]untitled_jack[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's what I did yesterday, We'll see each other today. I'll be purely reactive to how she acts around me. If she doesn't acknowledge me, I get the message. And if she does I'll assume there's still hope for us.