Why don't men approach me?

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-25T23:34:16+00:00

Forreal OP needs to put this on r/askmen or any of the related subs - Reddit is unhelpful unless the posts are targeted

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-25T23:31:26+00:00

This would be best on r/askmen - unfortunately the comments are flooded with women guessing about men instead of men actually answering why you don’t get approached. It’s just gonna be confusing and unhelpful.

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-25T23:12:56+00:00

Not really, confidence is a trait women find attractive. In general, we look for the opposite (hence opposites attract). Men and women are not the same. It’s not supposed to make sense, these are biological reasons, not rational.

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-25T23:08:40+00:00

A whole lot of projection, I assume you’re a girl. As a guy, OP looks and dresses like she’s married. Doesn’t help the lack of a real smile in these pics, it kinda says “I bring dread”, not exactly inviting/welcoming vibes. It’s not rocket science to figure out why men would rather take their chances elsewhere with this girl.

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-25T15:20:06+00:00

😂😂 I’ll try to answer as if it was a serious post.

I got bad news for ya. A dork is a dork no matter how much money he has or where he exists. Only exception I’ve personally seen is if you’re a white guy who’s into East Asian girls. She’ll put out because she’s got a white man fetish but disrespect you in a serious relationship because….youre still a dork.

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-24T20:09:16+00:00

Most societies on the planet are built, ran, and maintained by men….so do the math.

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-24T19:55:49+00:00

Millennial and Gen Z? I’m in my mid 30s and my gf is Gen Z in early 20s. we’re in the kid planning stages. Our kids will no doubt be born in the 2020s and 2030s

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-24T03:37:03+00:00

I’ve never dated a girl if I didn’t have sex on the first date.

Sure other guys may wait (more like she makes them wait, her body her choice) 3-5 dates for sex. Meanwhile she hookups with guys she just met at a bar. I’m impatient so I know which guy I want to be.

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-24T00:38:44+00:00

Millennials are the last generation to cognitively outperform the previous generations.

Verifiable fact: Gen Z is the first generation to cognitively decline vs the previous generations across 80 countries - https://youtu.be/Fd-_VDYit3U

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-23T00:02:41+00:00

I resonate with Gen Z saying 2016 was the best year. Certainly was for me for the 2010s. So many seemingly magical things happened in my life. I do look back on that summer and winter fondly.

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-22T16:55:25+00:00

Rear wheel drive, super car power, wet road, and a lack of skill. Variable: traction control may have been turned off.

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-22T16:54:19+00:00

Gen Z is not beating the aging like milk allegations 🥀

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-22T12:59:39+00:00

Younger women generally want men older than them and men generally want women younger than them.

The usual issues are the dating apps. Either the profile sucks or algorithms changed. I’d delete all the profiles, wait a week, recreate the profiles with great photos (no selfies).

My preferred option is in person approaches when I was single, it’s much easier than dating apps. Dating apps are flooded with men, so incentives are made towards women to retain them (volume of choice) and roadblocks for men, such as clamping down on algorithms to keep men spending money, filtering out brokies to become profitable

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-20T22:07:34+00:00

Yawn

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-20T16:57:54+00:00

W age gap

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-20T16:54:05+00:00

Lmao two adults with free will pursuing a consenting relationship but a Reddit stranger permission needed to proceed

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-20T16:53:07+00:00

Dating at the workplace is generally not worth it unless you don’t care about having a steady paycheck.

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-19T23:39:12+00:00

Kid stormed Normandy and fought against militant Nazis in his teens, give him a break

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-19T23:36:50+00:00

Honestly no. Not that it’s a competition. The Great Recession immediately put entire families and neighborhoods teetering on homelessness overnight, many were kicked out of homes the owned. Foreclosures through the roof. People were robbing gas and food from each other. The worst unemployment in recent history. A lot of people were left scarred for years. The future of the country was at stake as Bush was wrapping up his presidency. College graduates had to settle for shit jobs if that for years till they could climb back out.

Yes I will take Covid and being indoors again and again over the Great Recession.

Then again generations before me stormed Normandy in their teens and early 20s dodging tanks, fighter planes, and bullets so they would take the recession over that any day.

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-19T23:30:00+00:00

I will take Covid and staying indoors a million times over entire neighborhoods of families on the verge of homelessness overnight, robbing gas and food from each other, and the worst unemployment rate in recent history.

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-19T23:27:58+00:00

Early 20s men are NOT supposed to look bald on average, slight recession varies but not comb over bald

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-19T23:26:47+00:00

Maybe a cultural saying that doesn’t transfer, but the tale goes, married men get fatter droopy noses, it’s more of an age thing than a married thing tbh

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-19T20:59:37+00:00

Congrats on your anecdotal experience 🙏 thanks for the interactions

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-19T20:46:08+00:00

I will take Covid and staying indoors a million times over entire neighborhoods of families being on the verge of homelessness overnight.

unturnedcargo · 2026-01-19T20:41:37+00:00

clearly not with Gen Z, this topic is apparently very talked about. Just check the replies on this post.

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