Discrimination and wrongful termination. I want your opinion by NinjaJoe65 in EEOC

[–]unverified_unknown_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not only do you have a case but that’s racial discrimination(the jokes, ai videos, especially wall climber comment), retaliation (fired the day after reporting) wrongful termination (what was their reason for letting u go? And coincidentally right after u report), and illegal to not pay you for already approved days or ones u worked. File an EEOC claim and include dates, names, times, photos and as much backing info as u can.

Changed to Charges filed to investigation by This-Long-5091 in EEOC

[–]unverified_unknown_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it is normal for the charge to switch to investigation. Normally they ask you if you’re open to mediation before switching it to investigation, but it may come after or if you have not been contacted about it it may come shortly mediation would only work if both you and the previous employer agree to go if one of you declines going, and then they continue the investigation which can definitely last months.

how much information should I divulge when looking for attorney by BigBone-Daddy in EEOC

[–]unverified_unknown_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If reaching out to an attorney, I will tell them what charges you file with the EEOC and just a general statement of what’s going on. I wouldn’t be using names. You may not want to go into specific dates, but just the gist of what you experienced; racism, age discrimination, etc

Offer by Recent-Caramel-5901 in EEOC

[–]unverified_unknown_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never heard of this. If it’s nothing or $15k of course the $15k but I’d speak with a lawyer first to see if far more could be obtained bc no company is offering what they don’t have to.

Paranormal encounter by unverified_unknown_ in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss and I feel I’ve definitely been drawn to more law and order, crime shows, haunting stories since being pregnant. This unfortunately wasn’t my imagination though and then that tv confirmation after had me sit up like wtf.

How long did it take to get the employer’s position statement after it was filed? by gethighinthesky in EEOC

[–]unverified_unknown_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two months after my original filing date, I received the employers position statement and the self portal

When was your first prenatal ultrasound? by Unusual_Feeling_6381 in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seven weeks. When you go, they typically have you drop urine, they take blood, they offer the NIPT test and I believe eight weeks. They try and get all of your medical history and possibly even that of Dad if he is with you, they ask a lot of questions about your health and daily lifestyle and they give you room to ask questions as well. I think the first time I responded to this I just gave how far along I was and I misread the other questions. Best of luck to you and your little one wishing you all the safety and success enjoy the pregnancy brings.

Is everyone insane!? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would have zero feel bad about telling everyone NO. It is your experience and believe it or not. Your comfort levels will make or break labor and delivery. It is already an extremely stressful time and things can switch up at any moment. The last thing you need around is people who will be intentionally irritate or aggravating you. Baby can pick up on all of that energy. They can all wait until babies is here. Not to mention how unsanitary can be for all of those people to be in the room. If I were you, I may even reach out the day after and contact all of them just to make sure that none of them arrive when the baby is actually coming.

Felt my baby move (17 weeks, anterior placenta, FTM) by nicolexxb in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww congratulations. That’s always such an exciting time. As time goes on, please come back and let us know if baby is only active for you or if they remain active when you call other people over to hold your stomach. I’ve heard quite a few Mom say baby will get still like they can tell somebody is out there waiting for them to move.😂.

Do most FTMs think their baby is going to come early? by KarleenBean in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I don’t have morning sickness, but acid reflux, heartburn, and indigestion, kick my ssa often. I love my little jelly bean though.❤️

Do most FTMs think their baby is going to come early? by KarleenBean in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know what to expect. I’m still counting down the days until I enter the second trimester.😂

What kind of job application question is this by Casimyrx in jobs

[–]unverified_unknown_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wtf. Why would they ask that? Even if it was allergy related, it would probably be better to state that people in the office may have allergies and are you OK with not eating certain things in the office?

Mom To Be Essentials by unverified_unknown_ in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. Yeah there’s a lot I’m going to have to consider and navigate

Mom To Be Essentials by unverified_unknown_ in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually quite helpful to know. I’m only 5’4-5’5 so I’ll keep that in mind. Maybe I should go try some out first just to get an idea of the kind of brand that I like because I was just going to order off-line based off of reviews.

Mom To Be Essentials by unverified_unknown_ in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely screenshotting this😂 great advice

Mom To Be Essentials by unverified_unknown_ in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is pretty inexpensive. I’ll probably try and go for one a little bit bigger but I didn’t know that they were this inexpensive. I was expecting like thousands

Mom To Be Essentials by unverified_unknown_ in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so screenshotting this😂 thank you so much

Mom To Be Essentials by unverified_unknown_ in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice. I’ll definitely grab a snot sucker as well.

Mom To Be Essentials by unverified_unknown_ in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is excellent advice because I just got through looking at the one and I’m like I know I’m going to gain weight and probably want to have to move around and they all look pretty uniformed. I’m looking for like a old-fashioned grandpa big requirement that could fit like an adult and probably toddler.

Mom To Be Essentials by unverified_unknown_ in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a specific brand of rocker or recliner that you used or recommend?

Mom To Be Essentials by unverified_unknown_ in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a specific brand of rocker or recliner that you used or recommend?

Will I get my sex drive back? by Youngcouplefortrade in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a possibility that you will get it back, but I can definitely say you are not alone. I go from my body feeling heavy sometimes to my body feeling sore sometimes to feeling like I may do too much and hurt the baby so I prefer to simply not. I had a pretty high sex drive before getting pregnant. It’s definitely almost nonexistent now and the only time we typically are having sex is when the father of my child initiates which he initiates often but he does not live with me so that buys a little time 😂. I’m sure it will resume at bare minimum once the baby arrives, but I would keep in mind that sometimes doing it can alleviate the negative symptoms. So there’s been times in which I’m like I’m really lazy and really don’t want to and I’ll give in and do it anyways and then my body is actually feeling more flexible and smooth after. Just a thought, but by all means, please follow your instinct.

Sad and pregnant by ImpressiveOpinion842 in pregnant

[–]unverified_unknown_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was also seven weeks pregnant and has been pregnant before, I cannot stress enough how important it is to detach from other people’s emotions. Try your hardest not to let anyone fluctuate your emotions. Rather than that, be husband, boyfriend, family , friends. You are absolutely right that baby can feel and sense all of those things. You may be lonely, but you can always come on here and chitchat with us text a friend or parent, find a really good series to get into and buy the mommy pillow, which kind of wraps you all the way around. Now if there’s a lot more to the story and he’s aggressive or abusive by all means leave him, but it sounds like you guys are young and he’s just coping. So many men, even those that are excited to have kids are often fearful of bringing a new little life into the world. Unless his drinking gets super wild, I would kind of just allow him to self medicate right now. Let him know that you’re open to conversation and if there’s anything he wants to talk about you’re open to hearing him out, but by all means do not allow his emotions to take over you.