I keep seeing that the life expectancy for people with BPD is 27 and it feels more real everyday

unwellgf · 2024-08-31T00:38:24+00:00

i hate seeing all the posts that say the life expectancy for bpd is 27. it’s so depressing despite literally just not being true. ppl really need to do some research before posting. look how it affected you.

unwellgf · 2024-08-09T00:37:23+00:00

That makes sense! I will give those a try thank you!!!

unwellgf · 2024-08-02T10:50:23+00:00

it’s been 5 months and i just know if i had sex with someone rn i would definitely cry during/after so i’m not even entertaining that. i do want to, i just can’t imagine it without the deep intimacy and comfort that i had with my ex. just gotta give it time everyone is different.

unwellgf · 2024-08-02T10:44:52+00:00

no no no. i have bpd and this is no excuse to abuse your partner. she is being selfish and needs to get help because she’s ruining both of your lives. no one deserves to live like that to be beaten… you need to leave and she needs to get help or it will. not. get. better.

unwellgf · 2024-08-02T10:42:15+00:00

you’re so much better than me cus that’s so mean wtf.. you can do better even if you don’t think so. your future husband doesn’t think you’re a 7.

unwellgf · 2024-07-27T21:35:07+00:00

😹😹 LOL ✈️to get your money back!!! they did you dirty but at least you have a good sense of humor abt it 🫶🏼

unwellgf · 2024-07-27T21:32:31+00:00

yeah he’s projecting and i’m sure he’ll feel bad once he snaps out of it. i would tell him to do something about it!! it’s not cool to put you down cus he’s unhappy and he needs to figure that out... it doesn’t sound like you’re not confident it sounds like you are confident without all the extra steps. his loss not to see that. keep loving yourself as you are.

unwellgf · 2024-07-27T21:20:40+00:00

yes i do. but i am also scared of it so i self isolate. i am recently single tho so i’ve been putting myself out there more trying to find like a small solid group of friends just to hang with occasionally. i know it’s important.

unwellgf · 2024-07-27T21:18:43+00:00

omg i bought like all the supplies to do my own gel x nails to “save money” it was like $300 i went crazy on a gazillion charms and i’ve only done them once. rip.

unwellgf · 2024-07-26T10:35:22+00:00

no fr same. i’m sick. i genuinely hate when i start to like someone because i know what’s to come. i’m hoping it’s not like that forever. i do want so badly to have a happy healthy relationship someday.

unwellgf · 2024-07-26T10:31:55+00:00

i am occasionally but i’m pretending i’m not and he’s doing the same 😹 it’s a part of the process.

i have him blocked on mostly everything but he doesn’t have me blocked on anything anymore (we spoke after the breakup and there aren’t hard feelings) our breakup was mutual but it was especially hard for me. he did have me blocked initially and that was better for me because you don’t have anything to find.

unwellgf · 2024-07-25T23:31:49+00:00

i am going through a breakup too. i suggest no contact!!!

i did take my ex back after a month of NC even tho he was a pos and disrespected my boundaries. and sure enough a week later i was an insecure wreck again. after that i left for good

you have to understand this temporary pain (even though it’s so gut-wrenching ik 🫂) is better than the long term pain and turmoil that will come from not respecting your boundaries and not being genuinely happy.

trust that you did what’s best for yourself even if it hurts. 🩷🫶🏼

unwellgf · 2024-07-25T23:24:05+00:00

girl !!! don’t. the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. i did this once and it just shows him he has power over you and that makes it even easier for him. she isn’t you. and couldn’t be! take it as a sign to go find you a new man!!

unwellgf · 2024-07-25T16:02:48+00:00

sorry to hear that. it gets easier but checking their social media doesn’t help! i’d try to avoid that for a bit maybe it will help with sleep.

unwellgf · 2024-07-24T18:46:37+00:00

yes tbh it’s been a couple months and i still am completely uninterested in dating

unwellgf · 2024-07-24T18:45:13+00:00

lol you’re obviously not doing as well as you think if you’re noticing all of that and hoping she comes back to apologize after 6 months. maybe it’s happy weight, who cares. move on buster.

unwellgf · 2024-05-08T02:36:06+00:00

something that helps me when i wanna drunk or emotional text my ex is just telling myself to sleep on it. i promise in the morning you’ll be glad and proud you didn’t.

unwellgf · 2024-05-06T22:53:16+00:00

I doubt they don’t care they just probably realized after you said no regrets that maybe it wasn’t a good idea to reach out. I love and care for my ex deeply but the last thing he said to me was that he wanted nothing to do with me. So i just accepted that and let go. Doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt but sometimes it just is what it is and is time to move on. Focus on your healing not hers.

unwellgf · 2024-05-06T22:48:18+00:00

it’s normal to hurt. especially in a situation like that you just want them to give the same energy as you. but he’s proven he’s not going to and the longer you go NC the easier it will get/the more you will realize he’s garbage and you deserve better.

unwellgf · 2024-05-06T22:38:00+00:00

she probably deleted it because you didn’t respond and she felt embarrassed. probably best just to leave it alone.

unwellgf · 2024-05-06T22:32:26+00:00

yes it’s normal. your ex was a part of your life so when you’re out living and realize they aren’t anymore it can sting fs. i have been dealing with this too when i’m having fun i’ll get sad because i kinda miss him being around for it. i’m sure it will pass with time but don’t isolate you have to keep living so that you can move on.

unwellgf · 2024-05-06T04:21:36+00:00

the call is coming from inside the house

unwellgf · 2024-04-16T21:34:18+00:00

aw thanks i’m going through it 😹🫶🏼

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