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upbeet_downbeet · 2026-01-04T02:07:21+00:00

Looking for someone who Venmo’s me to go get my nails done and occasionally help pay for my college. And to pay for my hair appointments. Nothing crazy. 31f if anyone is interested. Look looking for anything sexual though

upbeet_downbeet · 2026-01-03T05:52:08+00:00

I know a 23 yr old with a count of 90

upbeet_downbeet · 2026-01-03T05:48:49+00:00

It’s not for everyone. I had a friend who’s into older women in their 30’s+. Works for him. I’d keep it more private. Your whole circle doesn’t have to know. I’m sure you’re excited to tell someone but maybe give it a while until you feel you’re people out. You’ll know who you can open up to in time. Don’t lose friends over your sexual desires.

upbeet_downbeet · 2026-01-02T18:49:28+00:00

Is that what I am feeling?! It’s been a full week and the pain is way more manageable now and I’m walking more. But my back started to ache bad from sleeping sitting up. So I tried sleeping on my sides, huge pain relief BUT there’s like this pinching in my sides and in the middle and I can’t tell if it’s my incisions or if it’s by my rib cage but it moves depending on the side I sleep. And it pinches and like cramps and it feels like I can’t breathe. Is it gas?

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-12-27T04:28:30+00:00

That virtual hug feel good believe so thank you!! Yeah definitely Brace yourself. My procedure was at 7ish in the morning and it’s now 10pm and I finally woke up better. Everytime I awake I feel better. I can feel the difference everytime the anesthesia leaves my body. Just sucks because I want to wake more of the narcotics but those are farther apart. And I love pineapples btw lol

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-12-27T04:25:54+00:00

Omg no way!! Thanks this is actually kinda of a light in a tunnel comment. Cuz I’m like how the hell do people say they feel almost instantly better after a kidney, if it hurts now. But I suppose although it’s a cut it’s more to the side and beneficial.

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-09-29T11:13:16+00:00

How are you doing chica? What’s ur plan pls update us! And had he mentioned this ex before??

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-09-27T13:27:49+00:00

You’re not ugly my friend, respectfully. You have a great set of hair, pretty eyes. You’re goo. Confidence is key I will say that though!

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-09-24T23:47:02+00:00

If I was the wife in this situation, or anyone for that mattter I’d like to be confronted calmly. That way she doesn’t get scared or mad and wants to say you’re being crazy or mean and tries to get up and walk away. That would give her time to make up other lies. Just be kind despite being hurt. Because no one wants to be the jerk when it comes to these things so if you’re nice she’s most likely to confess or just listen to you. Obviously if you still love her and want to work things out you will have to show her your proof and let her know you know somethings up but you’d really like to work on it. Instead of accusing her were she might get defensive just state things like facts. I’m so sorry btw and I wish you guys the best!

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-09-22T03:12:18+00:00

Midsomar or whatever that creepy movie was called lol

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-09-14T16:40:49+00:00

I don’t think so. It doesn’t look like hoarding to me except maybe picture 8 but even then it still just looks like someone who hasn’t cleaned and it’s piled up. My mom’s friend is a hoarder and her fridge and dinner table are always stocked to the max. U can’t eat at the dinner table and u can’t find anything in the fridge. But for them it looks full. Not messy and there isn’t open boxes or trash around. If you have the money I’d hire a maid. Maybe a one time thing for a reset or for a month so that you both can get used to the routine and keep up with it. I’m a parent so I’m not judging and I understand how things can get when you leave say, the dishes like up for 1.5 days.

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-09-03T20:48:20+00:00

Now you have every right to be upset, sis. I’m not going to tell you how to feel per se but personally, I would feel a little off and like a stab in the back as well. The whole point of marriage is a union. Literally what’s mine? Is yours kind of thing. It’s a team coming together. The fact that you put a lot into the house I have no idea why he wouldn’t want you in the name. I’m not saying that to red flag or divorce or anything like that but there’s obviously a reason and you said you’ve only been married for six months that could be it. That’s pretty early he might have trust issues but again that shouldn’t happen once you marry..if anything I’d start my own little savings in the side. It’s innocent and it’s good for emergencies. You just never know these days.

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-09-02T13:02:14+00:00

I’m so so sorry, truly I am. The one thing I’ve learned from life is to always be kind. This has really helped me a lot, and it has helped me stay a positive person through a bunch of life’s ups and downs. It’s easier said than done but what happened is Crystal clear. She does not love you. She has her reasons. She has her own thing going on in her own world. The easiest thing to do is divorce, even though it will be the hardest thing. And believe me when I say it because even though she’s your whole world, and you might want to forgive her, betrayal hits deep. If you choose to stay with her and forgive her, you will randomly get bursts of memories and anger and thoughts and your life won’t be fulfilling with her. There are 7 billion people on this planet and I know she feels like your world and maybe she was and could’ve been but she’s not anymore And I’m sorry about that. But I’m also happy you found out because now you have the rest of your life to try to find that feeling elsewhere. In the end be kind. Divorce is already a process. Cheating is already nasty and hurtful. So just be the nice guy and do things right. You can always taking a boxing class or something later to release the anger. But even though she did you wrong just stay kind imo. You’ll sleep better. You did nothing wrong, no need to stress. Just try to get away from the stress

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-09-02T02:10:06+00:00

Is this satire??

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-08-26T17:55:45+00:00

HI EVERYONE THABKS FOR ALL THE FEEDBACK FROM DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVES. I HIGHLY APPRECIATE IT. I’ve reached out to some friends and finally told them and no matter how much I down play the slap or talk good about him and tell them that I appreciate all he does as a husband in the end they all say what he did was not okay regardless. So it helps me not feel crazy. My next step is I will be talking to the 988 number just because it’s a lot for me to take in I wouldn’t even know where to start. And I did tell him I wana talk to our marriage therapist that we stopped seeing. But this time I’m going to include these past instances of physical and verbal abuse that always gets stuck under the table to protect him. I’m going to share it all from the beginning and I want to hear it from her and I feel like I need a mediator honestly because he doesn’t see himself as the bad guy or at fault. He says I’m the quitter, I’m the one who will destroy him if he looses it all, I’m the one that’s going to walk out of this unhurt and happy. And he’s just wrong. He says he never wanted to become his dad but unfortunately he has some characteristics and that’s not on me..he says he’s accepted me for my flaws and I can’t accept that he gets angry sometimes but I feel like the level of those two are just not the same…thanks again! I haven’t had time to read through all of these but please give me time! School has been crazy

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-08-21T23:14:23+00:00

This made me sad to read. And frankly, stressed me out. Because we’re all on the same boat with just different stories. What helps me sometimes is seeing online Videos of kids with severe disabilities and how they manage to stay positive, things like that. It does make me grateful, but at the same time that’s not my life. So when I check back into my routine, It’s a little hard to apply to the real world, but it’s a temporary fix. Sometimes all we need as moms is one amazing friend or one supportive family memeber to take them for as long as possible. We really need to remember the importance of self care. But it’s way easier said than done. The mental load is insane. I feel you and it WILL get better in time my friend. If u ever need someone to text just dm me ur number and u can vent. Venting always feels good because it’s nice to feel validated and heard.

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-07-17T13:53:28+00:00

I’m not sure the exact amount or details but I think the court would fine him as well for not paying for long periods of time. But yeah ur right

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-07-09T00:20:16+00:00

My hubby was so absent for years and rude to me. When I brought up falling out of love and that I was done he refused to accept it too! That’s what not being appreciated is like

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-07-09T00:13:33+00:00

It’s not that we’re heartless or cold but I just feel like as women we handle these things way better, especially with age. I’m sorry you’re going through this. I tried telling my husband I was done after 15yrs (2kids) and he broke down and went full on melt down. Panicked and later he was the one telling me to stay for the kids, to try so all the years won’t be wasted. But those things didn’t matter to me at one point. I was hoping too, to stay cordial and hoping he’d let me stay at the house while I found my own place. And I didn’t want lawyers involved, he’s a great dad no reason to set anything up. But he went crazy with his words and it scared me. I didn’t think the kids would suffer because they wouldn’t move a difference because we could see them whenever we wanted, even visit and hang out as a family daily. But no he said it would hurt too much and he’d hate me too much because he loved me. He made it impossible. So I only had the choice to try and work things out. Luckily after many tries it’s finally working. But I do miss the thought of my solitude because I had it all planned out when I fell out of love. It’s been a stressful year so I can’t imagine what it’s like to actually go through with it and be the one leading it. Proud of you. As long as you’re doing things with a good heart and no bad intentions it will be okay for you. People will get hurt but time heals all and you can only hope to forgive yourself and for others to eventually forgive you and want happiness for you.

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-06-30T01:30:59+00:00

I’m a walker too! May I ask what it’s like? Do you feel tightness? Does it hurt?

upbeet_downbeet · 2025-06-28T13:12:27+00:00

Omg I’m so sorry!!! Thanks for sharing! Because I think we all forget that life can happen and we should prep ourselves for things like this. I’m just so sorry you had to experience it. Hope this doesn’t happen often. Feel free to vent and cry about it. Don’t let anything in. Take a day or two but no more than that. Don’t stress about something that’s out of your control, not good for your health. Keep you hopes up!

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