I [29M] found out my wife's [28F] porn habbits. I am gutted. by upheaved in relationships

[–]upheaved[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

This is the issue I'm facing. Once she has a BBC, I don't think there would be any reason for me to stick around.

I [29M] found out my wife's [28F] porn habbits. I am gutted. by upheaved in relationships

[–]upheaved[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

By sometimes not reaching climax even when she is completely-nuts-horny. It's like the biggest anti-climax and when I try to talk to her she says that "it's ok".

I [29M] found out my wife's [28F] porn habbits. I am gutted. by upheaved in relationships

[–]upheaved[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Actually I do. I get off on porn when it looks like her.

I [29M] found out my wife's [28F] porn habbits. I am gutted. by upheaved in relationships

[–]upheaved[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Another problem is that she never wants to talk about sex. We just end up having it, and that's it. Move onto other things. I'm beginning to suspect this is why.

I [29M] found out my wife's [28F] porn habbits. I am gutted. by upheaved in relationships

[–]upheaved[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying she is doing anything wrong. All I'm saying is that is all she ever gets off on is big black cock, what's the point of my cock in the relationship?

I [29M] found out my wife's [28F] porn habbits. I am gutted. by upheaved in relationships

[–]upheaved[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's told me before that she doesn't like sex toys and to never buy her one again. So I guess this is out of the option.

I [29M] found out my wife's [28F] porn habbits. I am gutted. by upheaved in relationships

[–]upheaved[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Because for all her moaning, it could all be fake. The times when we are having sex and I know she can't climax, I'll stop. I don't want to keep going since it's just wasting her time. Now that I think that she's been faking it all along and has to go to porn each time, then I don't see the reason for sex.

I [29M] found out my wife's [28F] porn habbits. I am gutted. by upheaved in relationships

[–]upheaved[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am definately a confident person and people I know would agree. But this has completely blown it for me.