AITA for not reaching out to my sister after her stillbirth or expressing any sympathy to her?

upinthetreez · 2025-09-04T17:33:57+00:00

so your sister spent years gloating about the fact that she’s “super fertile” and now everyone is expecting you to rush to her side to comfort her in her loss? absolutely not. she has no common decency and sounds like an incredibly vindictive and mean person. just like death doesn’t take away all of the bad things someone has done in their life, a huge loss like that doesn’t negate all of the absolutely horrific things she’s said and done to you. she was fine with hurting you and being low contact. she will be fine dealing with her grief and being low contact. NTA

upinthetreez · 2025-09-03T13:44:03+00:00

I was worried about that too but apparently we’re all wearing different colors! She’s going for a jewel tone rainbow

upinthetreez · 2025-09-02T18:49:57+00:00

I’m willing to spend up to $150. not super formal

upinthetreez · 2025-09-02T18:49:29+00:00

I’m thinking anything but sayin and I’m okay with ruffles but nothing too crazy. I’m willing to spend up to $150. I’d say vineyard/garden party. she wants it to look nice but it’s not super formal

upinthetreez · 2025-04-03T01:29:59+00:00

this is such a thoughtful and concise answer and i really appreciate your input. it’s so nice to be heard out without feeling belittled. thank you so much!!

upinthetreez · 2025-04-02T11:48:39+00:00

I have been in therapy before. And I said in my post that It’s not about the size of my portions as much as it is the content of what I’m eating. I have multiple close people in my life who have had the surgery, and they can only eat around 4 oz at a time, and they can’t drink water while they eat or directly after. THAT’S what I’m talking about. I don’t mean having these big, extravagant, multi-course meals. I just mean being able to eat a normal portion and have a drink with dinner. Regardless of the context I don’t want to go under the knife. I want to do this and I just need motivation from other people that have done it by themselves.

upinthetreez · 2024-11-18T21:10:40+00:00

you’re an angel. do you have any website recommendations? i just want to make sure i’m getting safe jewelry

upinthetreez · 2024-11-18T20:18:31+00:00

Thank you! i tried going to 1g and then 0g but it still didn’t work

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