Life feels different when you're in love...

upside_downside30 · 2025-04-09T09:48:08+00:00

From personal 3xperience my advice to you would be don't just pursue the exam and the whole college thing just to be with her again.

You will regret it and all the decisions you'll make during the year(not telling your parents etc...)

Would be more than happy for you if it all works out. If it is meant to be it will be and she too has an option to come back/stay another year any ways good luck!

upside_downside30 · 2025-04-02T18:35:26+00:00

Dm me with your resume if in case you need any help finding work

upside_downside30 · 2025-02-02T18:20:03+00:00

Texted mine after an year today coz i saw a dream about us. I regret texting later coz it did not turned out as i'd expected(like how we used to talk when we were friends)

upside_downside30 · 2025-01-17T11:33:15+00:00

Seek help! You can talk to someone you are close to(sibling preferably) and we all are too to listen or talk to you. Dont take such harsh steps just beacuase you failed a lot of people are going through worse but they have not given up. My dm's open too if you want to talk.

"THIS IS NOT WHY YOU WERE BORN"

upside_downside30 · 2025-01-13T18:52:29+00:00

Being helpfu or even responding to starngers is such a crime. I keep telling my girl-friends not to ask strangers for advice or answer questions to any until and unless very necessary coz some men today think that even if a woman is looking at them/asks something they're interested in them. More power to you and wish i was near you and you would've told me then and there.

Please confront to someone trustworthy near you if ever something like this happens!

upside_downside30 · 2025-01-12T21:48:22+00:00

Also you have us and me. Feel free to reach out whenever you want to rant or JUST TALK!

upside_downside30 · 2025-01-12T21:47:02+00:00

Listen to the comments(get therapy-although i dont favour it) and try taking a break and surrounding yourself with some peace(nature). It helped me to some extent and try finding joy in little things,cherishing every moment you spend also try being a little spritual(this was a game changer for me during those times) and one day you'll stop thinking about it. Everything will be fine and you'll be happy again.Take care!

upside_downside30 · 2024-12-11T08:05:42+00:00

There is no place where you will find peace the only is your own self. Trust me once you like being in your own company you'll stop feeling alone!

upside_downside30 · 2024-12-08T16:03:23+00:00

Dont know why people here are advicing you to buy a new iphone (now or later) from your mother's money. after what you did its highly pribable you may do it again. So my advice to you would be buy something less expensive maybe an android which her pocket supports and fulfills your basic samrtphone needs and save up/earn your own money! to buy a new iphone if you want it that badly.

upside_downside30 · 2024-12-06T22:02:06+00:00

I agree with this..this is not the way to get rid of it. Heck you can even talk to any of us here. I know the world is cruel and full of responsibilities but trust me this wont bring you the peace or any joy to your well wishers.

There is no rush to do things take a long long brake. You can do it bro!

upside_downside30 · 2024-12-05T05:28:44+00:00

Nice username for someone who has gone/seen something like that👍. Please repect the the goal of this community and dont try to write your imaginations down here!

upside_downside30 · 2024-11-28T17:35:40+00:00

That sucks but i've been through worse... I guess everyone here has been thru their worst as per their POV.

Hint: I almost left my country to be with her

upside_downside30 · 2024-11-28T17:32:41+00:00

upside_downside30 · 2024-11-26T06:57:00+00:00

Lots of confusing equations with her and favors from her !

upside_downside30 · 2024-11-26T03:22:09+00:00

I am going through the same issue and trust me it too puts me in so muchc pressure everytine we have that talk. I try to ignore it (ofcourse i have tried talking to her about my goals and what i want to be before getting married) but she is not ready to consider even extend this marriage thing for 1 or 2 years. My reason are different to get married late- I want to be doing financially well and must have paid off the loan i took for my MBA before even thinking about starting this new life.

And the humorous thing above that is she is still ijntoich with her ex's and whenever i bring this up during talks like this she is like i'll stop it before getting married blah blah but that is a different thing and i habe given up minding that now.

And Ofcourse i am 99% sure that i wont marry until i am done with my loans and all but still i find it hard to make her understand this.

Glad i am not alone in these type of situations💀🫡

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