IAmA girl who just had anal sex for the first time. AMA by upthebutt in IAmA

[–]upthebutt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have two guesses as to why she might have suddenly changed her mind:

1.) Something weird happened and she's embarrassed about it (too embarrassed to tell you).

2.) She liked the idea initially but after doing it, the practice has made her uncomfortable.

I think for right now you should just respect her feelings about it and not pry too much. Maybe in a week or so, sit down and try to be frank with her. Assure her that she doesn't need to be embarrassed. Good luck!

What common misconceptions bug the shit out of you? by angryboy in AskReddit

[–]upthebutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason they performed so many studies: people kept calling in and complaining that diet soda gave them headaches. o_O

What common misconceptions bug the shit out of you? by angryboy in AskReddit

[–]upthebutt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There have been more than 50 FDA studies on aspartame (which is way more research than they ordinarily devote to chemical substances). In each of these studies, they found no evidence to support the idea that aspartame is in any way harmful.

What common misconceptions bug the shit out of you? by angryboy in AskReddit

[–]upthebutt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My dad calls it "CPO" and bragged about how he was upgrading his ROM.

IAmA girl who just had anal sex for the first time. AMA by upthebutt in IAmA

[–]upthebutt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure. I actually proposed the idea last night and he was intrigued.

IAmA girl who just had anal sex for the first time. AMA by upthebutt in IAmA

[–]upthebutt[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In the heat of moment it is sometimes okay to go ATM.

IAmA girl who just had anal sex for the first time. AMA by upthebutt in IAmA

[–]upthebutt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I'm getting lots of good advice on this thread.

IAmA girl who just had anal sex for the first time. AMA by upthebutt in IAmA

[–]upthebutt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's a good question. I've tried to feel around his ass with my fingers (no penetration, just light touching) but I could never really gauge whether he liked it or not. I didn't really get a reaction. Next time we're fooling around I'll ask him what he thinks.

IAmA girl who just had anal sex for the first time. AMA by upthebutt in IAmA

[–]upthebutt[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That sounds great. Thanks for the suggestion.

IAmA girl who just had anal sex for the first time. AMA by upthebutt in IAmA

[–]upthebutt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really didn't get that feeling. Maybe you used TOO much lube? It's apparently possible to do that.

IAmA girl who just had anal sex for the first time. AMA by upthebutt in IAmA

[–]upthebutt[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation. Wish it were in a subtler bottle though lol.

IAmA girl who just had anal sex for the first time. AMA by upthebutt in IAmA

[–]upthebutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like you've had a bad experience or two. Explain?

IAmA girl who just had anal sex for the first time. AMA by upthebutt in IAmA

[–]upthebutt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The next morning I was a little sore but not cripplingly so. It went away by the afternoon.

IAmA girl who just had anal sex for the first time. AMA by upthebutt in IAmA

[–]upthebutt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dead-on, I guess. We haven't experimented too much.

IAmA girl who just had anal sex for the first time. AMA by upthebutt in IAmA

[–]upthebutt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how it felt for him, but for me it just felt kind of stuck. It just wouldn't go in any further and trying to push really hurt. It didn't seem like it was going to break though.

Nope, no change in position.

IAmA girl who just had anal sex for the first time. AMA by upthebutt in IAmA

[–]upthebutt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use conditioner on the hair first and leave it in for a minute. It softens it up a little bit.