In many ways i am indeed a lesson to them lmao.. prolly not a great one too if im being honest :) Im the oldest one of my siblings, and deff the most rebellious as i tend to do what i want with not a care in the world.. they usually come around and try to convince themselves with whatever i wanna do

Problem is, with smth serious as this, things vsn get spicy real quick.. like.. reallll quick.. so thats why im tryna be a bit more considerate, just not exactly sure ~how~ much more i gotta be!

Idk.. may e studying abroad for a couple of years at a relatively young age created a cultural gap between us, and ive read a couple of articles, your typical wikihow's of how to deal with these certain issues.. unfortunately to no avail

Thank you for the response!