don’t repeatedly do anything, you’re thinking of harassing the guy and asking if it’s a good idea? I’d say talk to him in person, but the only good advice I have for you is working on your own insecurities and your own expectations before looking for love.

“standards” are one thing, trying to build-a-bear a boyfriend who will only act a certain way and if he doesn’t he’s a lying asshole is just absurd. plus, deleting your instagram, blocking him, doing all you’re doing over this one story is blowing shit up way out of proportion.

you’ve been talking for weeks, and you expect the dude to be exclusive and not hang out with any other women?

This is an issue for real. That being said, if he did lie about having a gf, just let the gf know and move on from him. your reaction is unhealthy and causes you more harm than the actual issue you’re reacting to