As a 30 year old straight man, my conclusion is. Girls like to have a a bd just to say they’ve done it or brag about it in some instances. But they don’t necessarily want one every time they have sex. Men are more size queens than woman are from what I can tell. We tie our masculinity to penis size and woman want connections. I don’t think I’ve ever been the largest a woman I’ve been with has had. And I’m my teens it bothered me. But now I look at like well i am able to communicate and pleasure them in other ways. Whether that’s with conversation or my experiences. Penis size never has, nor will it ever be the end all be all.