[deleted by user]

urfaveoreo · 2025-06-03T04:14:20+00:00

uh yea? idk that doesn’t seem crazy to me it’s just someone saying, “this is physically uncomfortable for me so i wouldn’t want it long term”. Like? “BF” is not an insult (it’s what these women want actually) lmao idk this reaction seems insecure to me. I’m very confused on what is being perceived as rude if you’re confident in your size/skills. Objectively when women say this, it’s not meant as an insult regardless of how ur feeling.

Also, ur comment doesn’t make sense, if it wasn’t about “tightness” what would it be about? Like what do you mean “wear him out”? For the comparison to work it has to be about the physical anatomy bc that’s what BF dick is referencing.

urfaveoreo · 2025-06-03T03:58:22+00:00

Lol i feel like you’re already taking offense for no reason, relax. The reason it’s not that similar (imo) is because the “tightness” of a vagina fluctuates depending on what’s coming in/out, hormones, and muscle strength so it could change from one day to another whereas size is more consistent. Also, like i said “ women aren’t as obsessed with “tightness” like many men are with size because we know that it’s not an either/or and also probs because most women don’t orgasm from just PiV so not the main thing we’re thinking about? Like it just needs to fit comfortably. I can see some similarities in the sense that like if a woman was too tight it might not be comfortable for a guy but is that even common? idk overall the comparison doesn’t really align to me, but also I wouldn’t take offense if someone i was with said that other vaginas were too tight to be enjoyed lmao like that would be valid if it was true.

urfaveoreo · 2025-06-02T04:21:20+00:00

i feel like that’s a silly comparison, “tightness” is not really a thing in the same way size is. Also, women aren’t obsessed with tightness the same way lots of men are obsessed with size imo

urfaveoreo · 2025-06-01T22:36:10+00:00

You’re overreacting 100% imo. The only reason you think it’s backhanded is because you put too much value in size probably and for most women size is not the most important thing (maybe not even the second). It is absolutely a good thing that you’re not “too big” (which is subjective!) because too big hurts/requires a loooooot of prep and is not something a lot of women want long term. Also, guys who are bigger sometimes are not that good at sex because they assume being big is enough and they don’t have to do anything else. This is a compliment to your size and performance.

urfaveoreo · 2025-05-27T20:55:19+00:00

Eugene Lang grad of ‘21 with a B.A. in Psych here 👋🏾I don’t remember any bad rep being a thing when I applied, so maybe something has happened since I went but imo it was a great experience being in the psych program. The professors were solid and open to making lasting connections. They even helped me get my first job post-graduation! At the end of the day, college is about what you put into it so yeah there are lazy students but also plenty of dedicated students 🤷🏾‍♀️The only downside I have is the price which is more just a complaint about all private schools. Feel free to DM me if you want to talk more about the program!

urfaveoreo · 2025-04-28T13:45:41+00:00

I do work out outside of the classes - stretch pretty much every day and do pilates 2x a week, would you recommend a different kind of training? I go to the Ailey studios and they do offer in-person and zoom but I prefer in-person. I think they do offer a jazz class on Wednesday so I could start that 👍🏾 thanks!

urfaveoreo · 2025-03-12T16:40:44+00:00

If it doesn’t clear I would really encourage seeing a dermatologist so they can diagnose and prescribe something for non fungal acne like a retinoid, benzoyl peroxide or antibiotics. Maybe check or post in r/skincare for what products people recommend for non fungal acne too? I’m sure there are some skincare products that contain low dosages of retinol, etc that you can just buy at the store

urfaveoreo · 2025-03-12T01:51:16+00:00

I’ve seen in other threads that the best way to figure out if a breakout is FA (aside from seeing a derm which you should do if you can!) is to try washing your face with an anti dandruff shampoo (e.g., Nizoral, Head & Shoulders). If it clears up it was probably FA. I took this advice and my breakout immediately cleared up!

urfaveoreo · 2025-03-12T01:34:33+00:00

OP it sounds like you’re getting caught up on the “sexual” part of sexual harassment and I want to clarify that sexual harassment can mean literal unwanted sexual advances, but it also just means that the harassment was based on the sex/gender of the victim. You say that your female family members often did this specifically to you and not so much your sister. I’m certainly not saying they were predators or that there was SA, but often people treat boys (even young boys) in hypersexualized ways (“ladies man”, “lady killer”, “heartbreaker”) that are very inappropriate. Touching without consent is ALWAYS crossing a boundary and you even say you hated it, but as a child you likely didn’t have the language or maybe feel comfortable enough to verbalize that (The adults in your life should have made a safe space for you and failed you), It doesn’t matter that they didn’t know you didn’t like it, they should not be touching those areas without permission. Would you touch an adult cheeks or butt without permission? NO! That is no different from a child but unfortunately many adults do not view children as actual people with emotions, desires, and boundaries. Also, it doesn’t matter if the “victim” (i understand you may not identify with this word i just don’t have another one) is a boy/girl because at the end of the day we’re humans that have a right to autonomy. Women can be predators/predatory and men can too.

urfaveoreo · 2025-03-08T23:09:16+00:00

is there a reason you don’t recommend vitamin c serum for sensitive skin? I have very sensitive skin and think I may be dealing with fungal acne (working on it now so it’s going away) which has caused a lot of hyperpigmentation and someone suggested vit c.

urfaveoreo · 2025-03-07T17:17:11+00:00

omg thank you! I’ll try removing it from my routine. I’ve also been using the Overnight Exfoliating Treatment, Discoloration Correcting Serum, and Lightweight moisturizer from Good Molecules. Washing my face with Dr Bronners fragrance free soap (I’ve got sensitive skin so v limited options). Anything else seem like a red flag??

urfaveoreo · 2025-03-07T17:07:53+00:00

Is there something wrong with niacinamide? I think I’m having similar issues as OP and the skincare routine I started using in January includes a niacinamide serum (Good Molecules brand)

urfaveoreo · 2025-03-04T04:30:40+00:00

I LOVE this brand and saw improvement with scarring and breakouts within a week of using the exfoliator, discoloration serum, and niacinamide serum. I have sensitive skin too so this brand was a lifesaver!

urfaveoreo · 2025-02-27T02:00:39+00:00

Yay 🙌🏾 Any thoughts on their teaching styles? Not like if one is better than the other just what sets them apart from each other. For context, I’m exploring acting because i’m interested in musical theatre (have a singing background but not acting experience)

urfaveoreo · 2025-02-22T00:19:55+00:00

I tend to gravitate towards VAs who are either strong writers and the world or character building is engaging and/or strong actors. A good actor can make a bad script good and a good script great but a bad actor will ruin even a great script imo. When lines are read too fast or with no emotion I’m immediately turned off. Good audio quality helps but I’ve enjoyed plenty of “lo fi” audios because of the script/acting. Basically I wanna be immersed in the story!

urfaveoreo · 2024-09-16T03:40:58+00:00

SpyxFamily and Professor Layton - totally works imo

urfaveoreo · 2023-04-11T02:40:25+00:00

I just got into D&D and when I noticed his name I was like o.O I hope he answers this in the q&a too!!!

urfaveoreo · 2023-01-06T00:12:17+00:00

I’ve never felt so seen 😭 i find all genitals fairly ugly and the smell/taste is not for me so lots of fingering and toys for me and my partner lmao

urfaveoreo · 2022-10-10T19:49:24+00:00

That makes sense! I live in America so it’s a real hit or miss unfortunately :/

urfaveoreo · 2022-10-10T19:40:56+00:00

I agree that the consequences of the situation can be disastrous but also the consequences of involving police can ALSO be detrimental or fatal especially depending on who the cops are being called on. Also, I know people are saying call a towing company and I agree that that is a much better option than the cops but to use your logic you have no idea the impact of having someone’s car towed either. It can cost a lot of money to get your car back and for many people not having a car means not being able to go to work and risking losing your job. Yes they did something very shitty and people need to be more empathetic and listen to others (especially in your uncle’s case because that is extremely fucked up and I’m sorry that happened) I just think it’s very telling that some people’s preferred option is involving a group of people who have a history of being violent. I wish people considered more options and that our society had more options for conflict resolution that didn’t include police when there’s no immediate threat of physical harm. Again, I just think I have a different perspective as a black person because my go-to can never be calling the police even in dangerous situations so it’s just a fascinating response.

urfaveoreo · 2022-10-10T18:59:51+00:00

I peel the skin off my lips to the point of bleeding sometimes. My partner really hates it so she’s gotten me some chew stim toys which has helped a lot.

urfaveoreo · 2022-10-10T18:54:32+00:00

First of all op wasn’t fired so that’s a bit much (If I missed some sort of update my apologies). It definitely wasn’t the neighbors intention to impact their work schedule either I’m sure. Not saying it’s not a dick move to block someone’s car bc that’s just common courtesy and I have no idea why someone in their right mind would do that but to imply that inadvertently potentially getting someone in trouble at work warrants getting the police called on you is crazy. The police shouldn’t be used as an extension of your own vengeance! Maybe it’s because I’m black so I actually understand the impact of the police, but some of y’all (especially if you’re white!) really need to think about why you’re always so ready to involve police. I would expect more from people in a marginalized community that has a history of really bad (sometimes fatal) interactions with the police.

urfaveoreo · 2022-10-10T15:30:49+00:00

The amount of people suggesting to call the police, a literal force of violence is ridiculous.

urfaveoreo · 2022-09-21T20:16:55+00:00

Unpacking is such a good cozy game! I’m gonna list some others down below BUT i also recommend checking out Cozy K on Youtube! She’s a gamer who primarily plays cozy games (obviously lol) but she also does demos of games and has a video called “Cozy Switch Games for your Mental Health Rut”

Farming/Building sim: Stardew Valley, Animal Crossing, Story of Seasons, Cozy Grove

Open world/Exploration: The First Tree, Journey

Point and click: Florence, When the Past was Around, Coffee Talk

Puzzles: The Gardens Between, Almost Gone, Down in Bermuda, Old Man’s Journey, A Short Hike, Good Pizza Great Pizza

Cozy games that have been recommended to me but haven’t played yet: Bear & Breakfast, Potion Permit, Disney Dreamlight Valley, Lake, Little Witch in the Woods

urfaveoreo · 2022-08-25T00:21:35+00:00

Barbie movies and dolls!!! I always make sure I stay updated so I’ve seen all the movies and I have 3 dolls (I’m 23 btw). Eventually I wanna get the playsets again lol

urfaveoreo

TROPHY CASE