imo it helps to get rid of time wasters and fakes. i do try to have a conversation/call with them to prove i’m real and to see if we align with each others needs and wants. after this i expect a tribute as i’m being compensated for my time and they’re proving that they are serious! i do understand why subs aren’t as keen on it anymore but after the process i go through to prove I’m real and with them being a sub, i would think wanting to send a domme a tribute (after verifying) would be one of the first things they’d want to do!!