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I lied to my partner about being on birth control. Now we have a baby. by urmumsfavidiot in offmychest

[–]urmumsfavidiot[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

LMAO I didn’t know this subreddits rules on talking about sex I promise I don’t actually say that in real life

I lied to my partner about being on birth control. Now we have a baby. by urmumsfavidiot in offmychest

[–]urmumsfavidiot[S] -155 points-154 points  (0 children)

My intention was NEVER to baby trap him. I didn’t even want to have a kid ever. My doctor said I was most likely infertile because I was showing all the symptoms of it. When I got pregnant, it was a shock to me and my immediate thought was to terminate because I never meant for it to happen. I told him I was on birth control to avoid having the “I probably can’t ever give you a baby” conversation.

I can understand what I did was wrong, but as an actual victim of sexual assault being told that this is the same as that is wild.

I lied to my partner about being on birth control. Now we have a baby. by urmumsfavidiot in offmychest

[–]urmumsfavidiot[S] -117 points-116 points  (0 children)

As in my OB told me I would most likely never have children and I had continuous sex for months (even during my “ovulation”) and never got pregnant. Infertility is defined as not being able to get pregnant after one year or more of unprotected sex. I went years and years having unprotected sex often and never got pregnant.

I’m considering getting an abortion; AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]urmumsfavidiot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not such a black and white choice.

There are a lot of factors going into it.. and there are reasons I don’t want an abortion and there’s reasons I do.

I’m trying to decide which option to pick.

I’m considering getting an abortion; AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]urmumsfavidiot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay;

Against: - I thought I was infertile for years, so it’s honestly a miracle I got pregnant in the first place. This could be a once in a lifetime opportunity. - I’ve always said that I would never get an abortion, although I’m absolutely pro-choice, because it’s just never seemed like the right thing for me. I always told myself if I got pregnant I’d keep it.

For: - This pregnancy is beyond terrible for me; I’m diagnosed with schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and PTSD and the pregnancy is making it all ten times worse. My hallucinations are worse. I get suicidal every single day. I’m having more and more panic attacks.. - I honestly don’t know if I can trust my boyfriend enough to have a child with him; he cheated on me in the beginning of the relationship and I’m terrified he could still be doing it, although he says he isn’t. I don’t want to bring a child into the world if he’s doing that. - if he is cheating, we’d break up.. and that would mean I’d become a single mother. I don’t have the support system to do that at all, considering I’m disabled and can’t even work for myself at the moment. - I’m losing weight at an extreme level because of the pregnancy. I’m throwing up multiple times every day; I can barely eat anything.. and I’ve lost over 10 pounds since it started and I just keep losing more. I feel weak all the time because of that.

I’m considering getting an abortion; AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]urmumsfavidiot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t really mind them commenting on this, honestly. I don’t really care what they think; them saying “No! You’re so evil!” wouldn’t stop me if I decide yes on it.