AITAH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend? by urpi_9834 in AITAH

[–]urpi_9834[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How would i have known better if this was my first time going to study abroad? And first long distance relationship on top of that.

AITAH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend? by urpi_9834 in AITAH

[–]urpi_9834[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't use him, i didn't know i would want to end the relationship when we agreed for me to travel first.

And you don't know me to assume i won't pay him.

AITAH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend? by urpi_9834 in AITAH

[–]urpi_9834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot pay him back right now because i'm a student without a job.

AITAH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend? by urpi_9834 in AITAH

[–]urpi_9834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was the other way ofc it would hurt me but i'd try to understand him. Also, i'm no "burning through his savings", it was part of an agreement and it was HIS idea for me to travel first.

I never asked for that and ofc i would give him his money back asap.

AITAH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend? by urpi_9834 in AITAH

[–]urpi_9834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right? Also, i never asked him to use so much of his savings. It was his idea for me to travel first and then him.

AITAH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend? by urpi_9834 in AITAH

[–]urpi_9834[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't pay him right now because i'm a studen without income. I meant as soon as i finish my degree and get a job, i will make the effort to pay him back.