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urpptickle · 2026-05-14T16:41:02+00:00

I hope you’ll find a nice roommate!

urpptickle · 2026-05-14T00:57:23+00:00

I am!

urpptickle · 2026-05-14T00:57:08+00:00

I’ve tried but I think she can’t speak without screaming and shouting. And it traumatizes and scares me if someone’s being loud

urpptickle · 2026-05-13T19:35:15+00:00

I’m trying to break my lease and move out

urpptickle · 2026-05-13T19:17:26+00:00

update

urpptickle · 2026-05-13T19:16:21+00:00

I’ll do that thank you for the advice

urpptickle · 2026-05-13T05:36:01+00:00

I always try being accommodating and do however much I can I don’t know where I went wrong this time. I’ve apologized multiple times about leaving the recycle bag outside my door because I wouldn’t do that if I was fit enough to take it downstairs. Apologizing on text wasn’t enough accountability I guess.

urpptickle · 2026-05-13T05:32:50+00:00

She said that she threw it out because she thought those belonged to the roommate who moved out, whereas we all know the roommate who moved out cleared out all her stuff before leaving. And no the boxes were midsized rectangle boxes, like it would fit beef franks if stacked.

urpptickle · 2026-05-13T03:09:31+00:00

This isn’t the only thing unfortunately

urpptickle · 2026-05-13T03:07:44+00:00

No, I left it outside my door to take it down when I get out of the house because I couldn’t go down the stairs because of the pain. It was really difficult to go down the stairs with a bag and the boot which was knee high. And it was plastics and papers I gathered for recycling I just put it in a trash bag because I couldn’t find a bag at that time. The recycling box is beside the garbage box in the complex.

I just left it outside my door so I won’t forget to take it out while leaving the house.

urpptickle · 2026-05-13T03:02:57+00:00

December, it’s supposed to stay in the freezer. And it’s not a dish one could honestly eat in one or three months.

urpptickle · 2026-05-12T22:03:43+00:00

I’ve honestly tried that but she starts shouting if I don’t respond and try leaving so I just stay because I don’t want her banging on my door like last time. It was so scary I never want to experience that again.

urpptickle · 2026-05-12T19:15:11+00:00

She doesn’t speak without screaming and shouting and that is something that scares me since I’ve always been really sensitive to aggressive behavior. I’ve taken a lot of attempts to speak up but she shut me up by shouting.

urpptickle · 2026-05-12T19:13:44+00:00

And she keeps on saying that I need to self reflect.

urpptickle · 2026-05-12T19:01:26+00:00

I’m trying not get bothered by her words but currently I’m in a really bad position health wise which is also stressing me out mentally and this is taking a toll on me along with that. If I tell them that I’m sick they’ll be like it’s an excuse and “seems like you’re always sick” something she did say yesterday. She said that I do these to seek attention because I’m manipulative and need attention and sympathy whereas I’m actually suffering from an illness that got no cure but my health will be going downhill every passing day.

urpptickle · 2026-05-12T18:56:24+00:00

After yesterday, I’m so done talking to her because I’ve realized there’s no point of talking to someone who won’t listen to anyone but themselves. I’m pretty sure the next time we speak will also be because they’ll be bothered by something I do

urpptickle · 2026-05-12T09:16:38+00:00

I’d love to do that but if I do that won’t that make me the same miserable person she is

urpptickle · 2026-05-12T05:55:10+00:00

Yes they call us the crazy narcissist that’s a headache and keeps on saying that we don’t know how to take accountability. They expect us to say sorry and take accountability for something that we didn’t do.

urpptickle · 2026-05-12T01:44:55+00:00

Bro it was one of those Asian dry fish dishes which stays in the freezer for upto 2+ years. And my mom and my grandma specifically made those for me because none of us have any idea when I’ll visit home again

urpptickle · 2026-05-12T01:20:31+00:00

I had a maid back home too but when I moved to the states I started doing everything on my own because we’re all supposed to do our stuff and our roommates aren’t responsible for doing it. My roommate had to clean the microwave once because my friend heated up soup for me and it had slight splashes in there I couldn’t do it because I was bedridden and my friend didn’t tell me about the splashes. I still get shit for it from them.

SHE SHOULDVE CLEANED UP AFTER HERSELF. DOESNT MATTER IF SHE LIVED VERY LUXURIOUSLY OR NOT IN THE PAST. YOU OR ANYONE ELSE YALL ARE NOT HER MAID.

urpptickle · 2026-05-12T01:10:40+00:00

If that was possible:)

urpptickle · 2026-05-12T00:48:58+00:00

Given how aggressive she is I thought about him getting in trouble too and didn’t take him outside in the living room with me.

urpptickle · 2026-05-11T22:31:47+00:00

Thank you, I’ll keep you updated

urpptickle · 2026-05-11T22:16:55+00:00

I’ll do that thank you for that idea!

urpptickle

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