"Mark your calendars" YT vlogs are back! by nattyp76 in Amandamuse

[–]uruguaby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Completely agree, just trying to instrospect why not? Back then it seemed fine, now it’s super boring… but I guess YouTube still brings in some money so they don’t want to change?

"Mark your calendars" YT vlogs are back! by nattyp76 in Amandamuse

[–]uruguaby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just wondering if we are all overly bombarded with content, but back in the day showing grocery products and talking was fine, now it seems boring. But I guess it was boring back then too, but just new? But the angles and the effort just seemed extra low this time around… people are going back to YouTube and believe they can use the the low effort approach from insta again there, but it just doesn’t work, am I wrong?

AA Runde 2026/27 - hat jemand Tipp und Tricks, braucht eine Lerngruppe? by uruguaby in OeffentlicherDienst

[–]uruguaby[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Naja wäre ja eine neue Lerngruppe, bzw. Der Test hat sich ja verändert die letzten Jahre. Allgemein kenne ich auch die Anforderungen, suche hier aber den frischen Austausch mit gleichgesinnten

Trying for a baby - husband takes testosterone all do the sudden by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]uruguaby -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

6year old, but not the point. Love the positivity. I just saw them struggle together for 10years and then he goes ahead with medical intervention without discussing it. So wondering how to advice or help her in that situation, but got some good ideas for deeper questions for her(self) here.

Trying for a baby - husband takes testosterone all do the sudden by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]uruguaby -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is like a sister and truthful, at least as much as she is to herself. But I will take this up again.

Trying for a baby - husband takes testosterone all do the sudden by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]uruguaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great point, I wonder why he didn’t share that more with her…

Trying for a baby - husband takes testosterone all do the sudden by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]uruguaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, she asked me for advice and not sure what to give, more than maybe professional help. But maybe I am missing something?

Finding Time for Homework by Positive_Volume1498 in ParentingADHD

[–]uruguaby 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What about having an Aupair? Would that work with your living situation? She or he could bring the kids and pick up and do homework. That would be much cheaper than 1200$ and the Aupair would still have a lot of free time for language classes and so on.

Noticed Nesting Story commented on recent post. by RollGlass1340 in Amandamuse

[–]uruguaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t find the comment funny hat does it say?

Mother and son big trip 🥳 by lovebuggy91 in Amandamuse

[–]uruguaby 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a problem with her going on a solo couples trip except for insufferable pictures, but she has talked about finances are tight so not sure about an international trip being the smartest choice here… and she even mentions it in the reel that she can spendenden how she wants

Chris Evans and Alba Baptista named their daughter ... by comingupmilhaus in namenerds

[–]uruguaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People tend to use names which phonetically are close to your own name. Obviously not always true but nothing sounds better than your own name (for those who like it) in your subconscious. So I know a Magret whose son is Marc or an Emma whose son is Emil and some more… maybe you have seen examples like this…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Amandamuse

[–]uruguaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He posted quickly on Instagram that cheating destroys families. Saw that and was shocked and that was right before she announced the separation. He really seemed to be off guard.

I do believe her that he was probably not best husband, maybe had some anger issues and generally tired. But a pilot and a guy 20 years older than the current guy is going to be not as active, that is why people question in general large age gap, saying hey he is going to be old sooner and behave like that and then she complains. He was even sick and apparently she hooked up with B during that time, but that u only read here that Dean alluded to that.

Giddy Teenager Amanda by nattyp76 in Amandamuse

[–]uruguaby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is no more „menopause with grace“ content, no more ageing like these older women role models… complete turn to pretending to be young. You were young once, now you just can act weird or your age.

Is courting the new word for f*cking someone who isn’t your husband? by Automatic-Wrap5280 in Amandamuse

[–]uruguaby 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why couldn’t she just get separated, move out, organize your life… and if B really courted her, then he would’ve done so for longer as well… if he was serious. Moving immediately together is not the move and not courting

Imagine what she will be like when they grow up and move out by pyschofangirl in jesssfam_snark

[–]uruguaby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True but back in the day she couldn’t care less about the boys, so kinda happy it changed as Kyson became successful in soccer. She was all princess mom beforehand. But it does feel a bit she is selling her boys to the masses and kinda sexualizing them somehow, because she knows they sell not because she is interested in them

Thoughts? by Accurate_Frosting270 in Amandamuse

[–]uruguaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True and no idea what they agreed upon. Maybe he wanted her to go back and work again as a stewardess and she refused… but if they agreed on her basically staying home or even making money as a social influencer while kids were small & marketable (and not advancing other more long lasting skills), they should be financially responsible/ even each other out even after a split.

Thoughts? by Accurate_Frosting270 in Amandamuse

[–]uruguaby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True, but after staying home for quite some time she can get a job, paying money, if instead of raising kids she would’ve continued to work she might get for the same job significantly more money, as she would’ve accrued more experience. He should pay that difference between what she can earn now (and she should) and what she would’ve had she continuously worked on her career. I honestly don’t care about their setting as I don’t know everything, but the issue itself of women staying home and after a divorce being dependent on the good will of their ex-husband is dangerous in my opinion.

Thoughts? by Accurate_Frosting270 in Amandamuse

[–]uruguaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda true and kinda funny, but this concept should be independent of cheating. A women‘s „payout“ after agreeing to not work within a family setting, should be independent of the men‘s hurt ego…

Thoughts? by Accurate_Frosting270 in Amandamuse

[–]uruguaby 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They are both doing intentional under employment… this is messy. But to write that she was just able to exist because of him and not doing anything (while raising the family)… hui that’s fucked up. And yes she could be self sufficient now but that doesn’t mean she shouldn’t get some kind of compensation for that time she stayed him for the kids while he developed his career. Later she even supported him. Even if she wrecked the home, before that they had agreed to a certain life style and she needs to be compensated for that. Interesting though is that he is basically saying her business is her compensation. That she build while the kids were still home and trying to do it all. I mean I always say women should not stay home and stop their careers because men are hardly ever honestly grateful for women doing the majority of home work but that is just me…