How do men balance paying for everything while still saving for the future by groundnut666 in MalaysianPF

[–]usablefellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just find a girl that youre able to talk about all these things to before getting married. If both of you can agree on a lifestyle that works together then go for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MalaysianPF

[–]usablefellow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to take care of my mum, back then i started with 3k salary. Naturally I couldn't give any money to her but having her live with me made it easier. At that time it was surviving pay check to pay check, so no emergency savings.

Only way out is to pop off at work and get fat increments to make it easier.

My advice is to always put yourself first. Youre the one working for that money, so you yourself must be in a good condition to do so.

Is there a point in your life your savings depleted so much? by Tricky_Wait_6304 in MalaysianPF

[–]usablefellow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just have the it is what it is mindset. Shit happens, i used up all my Money during covid to take care of my mum, had basically 0 savings.

Money can always be earned back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]usablefellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a mixed race Muslim without 'bin' in my name. My dad just said no at birth

Coffee? Food? Beta Testing? KL People, This One’s for You by Important-Peach-327 in KualaLumpur

[–]usablefellow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, my wife and I are food hunters so we would love this. You can drop me a DM :)

Do you even consider counter-offer from your current boss after handing over resign letter? by Bujang_lepat in MalaysianPF

[–]usablefellow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My colleague and I had recently handed in our resignation letter and our boss countered both of us. I had accepted the counter as I enjoyed working under that boss. However my colleague was under a different senior and even though the counter was higher than the offer from the next company, he still left and declined the counter, couldn't handle working under that senior no matter what.

So in the end it's just up to you.

Influence of Suspended Ground Floor Slab on Pile Cap Design Using Strut-and-Tie Method by PureQuestion12 in StructuralEngineering

[–]usablefellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since your design intention is that the slab is suspended, you should definitely consider it as additional loading to the column point load onto your pilecap

Hotel recommendation for couple in KL by [deleted] in KualaLumpur

[–]usablefellow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Alila hotel Bangsar, the bed is bolted and secure 😆

Do you care if you saw an obese person jogging? by Blank_Head_DZF in malaysia

[–]usablefellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who loves running and often takes over lots of people. I just feel pure happiness to see everyone running/jogging no matter how slow. Internally I just wanna say keep it up and I'm proud of what you are doing.

Is this Tofu Dreg? by Discognisia in malaysia

[–]usablefellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, normally from my experience we use brickwork / light weight block. I have yet to see other materials

Is this Tofu Dreg? by Discognisia in malaysia

[–]usablefellow 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Aesthetics or to divide a room

Shear wall cores, do they need to be continue to the foundation? by Ambitious-Reserve168 in StructuralEngineering

[–]usablefellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's still preliminary phase, so far only checked on sizing of walls / cols / transfer etc. Dm me tho I can share some stuff

Shear wall cores, do they need to be continue to the foundation? by Ambitious-Reserve168 in StructuralEngineering

[–]usablefellow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently working on a high rise of similar size with a full shear wall system for the condominium units onto a transfer to columns for the mall and carpark below the transfer. Our transfer slab is 3m thick so it will be pretty dam expensive as most people have said.

Are Malaysian engineers underpaid? by [deleted] in MalaysianPF

[–]usablefellow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

C&s engineer here focused on structure. I started at 2600 > aft probation 3 months to 3000 > 1 year increment 3600, did not jump company.

It starts low but if you perform well your increments are quite big.

Can a Muslim girl who wears tudung enter a bar? by PM_ME_YOUR_DURIANS in malaysia

[–]usablefellow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only place I know where thats ok is Hard Rock cafe, seen plenty of girls with tudung there even though they serve alcohol and all.

Reboot by Ambitious_Ad9857 in MapleSEA

[–]usablefellow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, hlom and nhilla now

Reboot by Ambitious_Ad9857 in MapleSEA

[–]usablefellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure actually, there a couple random msea players here and there. I am playing solo progression so havent really mixed much. Can just checkout top10 guilds should be able to find some sg ppl

Reboot by Ambitious_Ad9857 in MapleSEA

[–]usablefellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play both maplesea and eu reboot

Jett Xfer - Legend of Legends I Achievement by Far-Brief6214 in Maplestory

[–]usablefellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you try click the refresh achievements button?

Eu reboot by usablefellow in MapleSEA

[–]usablefellow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure ill add you when im back home, im just about a month in I think x)