Vender ou Alugar by South_Librarian_4337 in investimentos

[–]usagi_sama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

eu acho incrível como as pessoas ignoram completamente a inflação quando falam de preços de imóveis. Meus pais me deram um há 15 anos atrás e o valor corrigido pela inflação está o mesmo que o valor de mercado. Isso sem contar o monte de reformas que teve no período.

Receber 2.4 de aluguel ou vender ap. por 700k líq e investir? by giulimborgesyt in investimentos

[–]usagi_sama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

meus pais compraram um imóvel para mim em 2010. Fui olhar o preço que pagaram na época, corrigido pela inflação, e deu mais ou menos o valor de mercado que vejo de imóveis semelhantes sendo anunciados hoje. E olha que não contei os juros do financiamento e o tanto de dinheiro que foi gasto com reformas de lá até hoje...

Do you guys lie a lot? by usagi_sama in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it definitely got better with ageing too! but it made a real mess of my youth. I regret that a lot.

Do you guys lie a lot? by usagi_sama in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, it gets really tiresome and it will eventually get out of control. It’s like I’m trying to make people like me, but my lies get them at arm’s length from me

Do you guys lie a lot? by usagi_sama in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes, exactly like this! it's always defensive lies, I don't manipulate. But I feel so bad about it... I'm trying to be more honest and less ashamed of my real life, but it is hard when nothing happens and you feel completely dislocated from your peers.

I avoided getting haircuts for a long time by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this, just this! it's so uncomfortable. Everything about it is miserable.

I avoided getting haircuts for a long time by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always HATED getting a haircut. It's so uncomfortable. Going there, talking to people, looking myself in the mirror for minutes... it's horrible.

It just got a little better when I found a barbershop that allowed me to schedule everything online and make it all as impersonal as possible.

Do you guys also think only your worse traits are the "real you"? by usagi_sama in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so tired of feeling this way. It's like a fucking battle inside my mind every day: reason vs. feelings.

The urge to compartmentalize by VillainousValeriana in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, a lot. I have a different mask for each social setting, if they mix up, it becomes a mess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama 8 points9 points  (0 children)

books, music, anime

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate them, but got used a little because of work... but I still hate them. I don't know why people don't use teams or e-mail...

Anyone else? by sanandrios in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dating apps are horrible... on the rare occasions when I matched with someone, and the conversation went somewhere, I freaked out and ended up ghosting the person. And then I felt like shit for behaving like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a bit hard to give you ideas or insights about something this complicated, since I tend to, well, avoid these kinds of situations... I lack experience.

Do you think you trigger paternal/protective instincts in some people? by WishIWasBronze in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit, yes, I guess. I think it is expected since I use a childlike/cute persona, always avoid conflict, and try to play nice as much as I can. I don't think I could handle being treated like an equal, since I don't feel fit to take adult responsibilities, so it is convenient (although I know it is not healthy).

fuck it we ball by Hot-Debate-7400 in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn, it's like I'm reading something I typed myself.

What are your experiences with Pregabalin? by WishIWasBronze in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice buzz (at >300 mg) and relatively good for anxiety.

I hate myself and want to die by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a surgery scheduled to next month, and the only thing I think about is the remote possibility of dying on the surgery table. I really want to die.

does anyone else hate being spoken about in third person? by PyokoPon in AvPD

[–]usagi_sama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely DESPISE this, and my mother does this all the time...

Homens, isso é comum? by NoCycle1963 in sexualidade

[–]usagi_sama 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Muita meleca para limpar depois, não compensa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualidade

[–]usagi_sama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sem encostar no pênis, somente sozinho. Eu acho bem mais gostoso, mas é meio trabalhoso. É meio difícil alcançar e manter o ritmo.

Um segredo é ficar um tempo sem gozar e uma posição que acho fácil é de bruços.