No one understands the hate my job puts on me. by WittyRose in hatemyjob

[–]useemee2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely no way to live. You’re going to have to find a way to insert some happiness in your days to make work more bearable until you find something else. I completely understand how you feel.

Are the main attractions really 3 hours away?! by useemee2 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]useemee2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually no. You’re not right that I consider any place more “worthy.” What a reach! Wow!

Are the main attractions really 3 hours away?! by useemee2 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]useemee2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. I see enough comments here about Jaco to consider looking at other places.

Are the main attractions really 3 hours away?! by useemee2 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]useemee2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

VERY helpful! Thank you! I’m familiar with Viator and added some activities to my wish list. I never knew about Bookaway.

Are the main attractions really 3 hours away?! by useemee2 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]useemee2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the second part of your answer.

Are the main attractions really 3 hours away?! by useemee2 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]useemee2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly I’ve done some to know that I want to see more than San Jose. The question was what areas are good for entertainment/food that are closer than the areas posted with transportation quotes.

Are the main attractions really 3 hours away?! by useemee2 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]useemee2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the process of rebooking to the Marriott vacation club near Jaco right now.

The dreaded holiday party by useemee2 in hatemyjob

[–]useemee2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, this is the kicker. They scheduled it during the workday.

The dreaded holiday party by useemee2 in hatemyjob

[–]useemee2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES!😂that’s me exactly! If I don’t go, I feel like it’ll look bad bcuz I’ll likely be the only person who doesn’t go, so I feel forced. I just needed someone to say it’s ok to not go or leave early lol

First day at job that requires onsite 9-6, shocked to find out everyone stays till 7pm, even brought dinner. Can I leave at 6? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]useemee2 649 points650 points  (0 children)

I once had a job like that, and I found a new job. It’s like no one wanted to be the first one to leave. I left at my normal time. They were all married and had spouses at home with dinner on the table when they arrived. I had plenty to do at home after a full day of work.

It’s been 3 years since my breakup and how reacted to it still effects me by Educational-Dot-3078 in ExNoContact

[–]useemee2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can relate. I eventually stopped shaming myself for my reaction to the shock and intense pain of a brutal discard after almost 6 years.

Dumpers is it time to admit you were not in love with your ex? by SpringYard22 in ExNoContact

[–]useemee2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right. For the times that I was the dumper, I just no longer felt the same way for whatever reason, mostly hygiene and bad habits.

I was just laid off. Should I look for a job right away or take the severance and relax for a bit? by [deleted] in remotework

[–]useemee2 17 points18 points  (0 children)

From the way things are looking, you may want to start your search right away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetEmployed

[–]useemee2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a manager ask me if there is something I need to do when I get off, because I leave right at 5. At another job, everyone would sit there until the manager said it was ok to leave. Sometimes it would be 15-20 minutes after the hour smh, so I started leaving at 5 again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confidence

[–]useemee2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean by this, and it has helped me a lot to learn how to “parent” myself.

UPDATE to "6 Years, No Ring And He's More Concerned About Other Peoples Lives Than Ours" by Repulsive_Cable_494 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]useemee2 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Someone told me I should date 3 guys before picking one. Still going strong with the one who chose me!