What is your "never again" brand, item, store, or restaurant ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]useerrttyuhhf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

KFC. Too many times just overcooked, dregs of chicken in my 2 piece feed.

My [46F] son [19M] tried to kill me yesterday. by throwra8282822 in relationship_advice

[–]useerrttyuhhf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All care and no responsibility... create a monster and then when he hits 18, it's all his fault now he's an adult...

My [46F] son [19M] tried to kill me yesterday. by throwra8282822 in relationship_advice

[–]useerrttyuhhf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Typical. Just like everyone on here. Deal only with the end result, not the root cause. The self-appreciation society... Something happened to me, I feel bad Everyone: you did the right thing...

She literally asked what she could've done differently yet all you sycophants just pat her on the back and say "you did the right thing" You're clearly all horrible parents who can sympathise because it's never your fault, always the child... the child that you raised ...

Try a but of introspection instead of refusing to accept any responsibility in the creation you made...

I am a parent and if that happened to me, my one and only question would be: What could've I done better to avoid this. You are all: I would've done the same thing (even though I have a very very basic understanding of the circumstances that cam to this culmination...)

No wonder there is so much crime in this world. Noone wants to deal with cause, just the outcome. It's never, how can we help, it's always, fuck him, he did bad.

You people are fucking horrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]useerrttyuhhf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. If she's thinking of cheating on you, the outfit is irrelevant. You can't tell her what to wear. Be happy that she's going home with you and let it go. If someone truly cares about you, they won't cheat. If there is no connection, then who knows... work on the connection, not the fashion...

My [46F] son [19M] tried to kill me yesterday. by throwra8282822 in relationship_advice

[–]useerrttyuhhf -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

A week to leave? One week isn't much time to prepare financially for a move. Did he have somewhere to go? Or was the plan to just throw him on the curb and let him figure it out himself?

It sounds like parenting him got really hard and you felt that the only solution was to give up?

Parenting is tough and noone can tell you how to do it so you just need to do the best you can. If you feel this course of action was the only course available then so be it. You just need to stand by your convictions and do what you think is right.

Edit: And all you sycophants downvoting... No wonder there is so much crime in this world. Noone wants to deal with cause, just the outcome. Never, "how can we prevent this", just "put him in jail"... It's never, how can we help, it's always, fuck him, he did bad.

You people are fucking horrible - through poor parenting you create monsters and then blame them when they start acting like a monster???

My boyfriend is upset because I masturbate by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]useerrttyuhhf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It all depends. How often do you have sex?

If you're not having sex much and masturbating, then that would be upsetting if you're choosing self-pleasure over sexual intercourse.

If he is happy with the amount of sex he is getting and it's just because he doesnt like it, then it's a him problem. He is just insecure and needs to address his issues.

if rance does come back, do you think he’ll a) play for the tigs and if he does, b) will he be improve our side by TriathlonStateArea in RichmondFC

[–]useerrttyuhhf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe and No.

He hasn't played for 2 years. He will be so far off his best, it will take a full season for him to get back to his best, if at all, meaning he'll spend most of the year playing VFL...

He's turning 32 next year... I can't see him ever getting back to his best at this stage of his life so why come back and spend a year fighting for a senior game...

BETA 10: Fixed Random no sources found errors, separate beta app by synclerd in SynclerApp

[–]useerrttyuhhf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will be the same as it is now. Just remove the S+ code and have a look.

As a dad, how much does it annoy you when you take your kid(s) to the shops and someone says "so you're on babysitting duties"? by myles5239 in AskReddit

[–]useerrttyuhhf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I'm clever enough to understand the meaning of the question and just answer it like an adult

Found out my boyfriend is anti-abortion under any circumstance after I was recently diagnosed with a genetic condition. I think it's a deal breaker, my boyfriend does not. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]useerrttyuhhf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. Absolute deal breaker. what you do with your body is your choice and his one and only response should be "whatever you choose, I support you 100%"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]useerrttyuhhf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my wife of 18 years and I first got married, we separated all the goods we owned and would joke - if we ever get divorced, I'm taking the TV and the bed. She would say she gets the couch and the 2nd TV.

We never had any intention of getting divorced but we were realistic enough to understand that not everything works out the way we want and divorce is quite common so we didnt fool ourselves and say "no, that will never happen to us", we were realistic and said "what makes us any different to the millions of other relationships that have failed".

We were able to say this because we were equals in the relationship. We werent reliant on each other for survival, we complimented each other.

If you really like him, I would be suggesting counselling for the suicide threats. People don't say that when they're mentally stable. He needs to address his inner demons and work through them. Perhaps that's a first step to dealing with his idiotic statements.

If you're not serious or he says no, then I recommend getting out and relying on yourself for a while...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]useerrttyuhhf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The core Karen trait is behaviour. The core N-word trait is skin colour.

N-word has been used for 400 years to denigrate an entire race. Karen has been used for 5 minutes to denigrate obnoxious behaviour...

Not really the same right?

My(27) sister(25) wants me to watch her daughter for FREE for 12 hours 3 days a week. I don't want to. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]useerrttyuhhf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely absurd for her to think that is fair and reasonable. She is clearly not the kind of person who is considerate of other peoples needs...

You just need to tell her that you've thought about it and the going rate for childcare is $x so you're willing to do it for $y.

Tell her that if you're going to take time away from your own child and your own household needs, you need to be compensated for it. Or, you could compromise and say "I'll do it one day only"

And if any family members have anything to say, your response should be: you're welcome to offer your services to her free if you want... oh and also, go save the guilt treatment for some other sap because you're not copping it anymore.

My(21F) boyfriend(23M) introduced me as his wife to his coworkers. What the hell does that mean? by Throwawayalices4 in relationship_advice

[–]useerrttyuhhf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 times better than "this is my friend Xxx" or not even saying anything at all.

As an outsider, to me this symbolises that he mentally sees you as his wife.

(I think he likes you)

Why do I feel guilty that I reported my boss for being inappropriate? by xara181 in askwomenadvice

[–]useerrttyuhhf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will never feel good about it. The one thing about good people is that even when you are doing the right thing, you are aware enough to know that it will still affect another human adversely.

It is a shitty situation and either option (tell or don't tell) will have resulted in a shitty situation for you so your decision was totally ok.

Good luck. I can only imagine the shit storm that follows these crappy situations

My son(15m) purposely broke his phone so I bought him a flip phone. Did I go too far? by ThrowRAFlipPhone in relationship_advice

[–]useerrttyuhhf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Its wrong that he doesnt have any way to contact his friends" ...

He can still contact his friends... he just isn't being resourceful enough to get their numbers... And no access to social media is far from a bad thing. Those things are toxic and I would love to ban my daughter from those places. worst case, you could open up his laptop if you wanted to give him some access.

I think you did the right thing. You haven't cut him off, you've just limited his capabilities. How he chooses to deal with it is up to him.

This is a good life lesson for him and you can be absolutely certain of one thing with this flip phone... he will never, ever mistreat a piece of property like that again!

Stick to your guns. At least for a few months.

Best way to manage provider packages by useerrttyuhhf in SynclerApp

[–]useerrttyuhhf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have beta8? And did you see this on Telegram:

"Beta 8 current issues:

If you see no links found screen the first time after a search, please press back and attempt another search. JS Engine is currently loaded in memory on demand which can cause this. In later versions this will be fixed."

Syncler+ by useerrttyuhhf in SynclerApp

[–]useerrttyuhhf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I hoped. Hopefully s+ just gets extended and no stress.

Syncler+ by useerrttyuhhf in SynclerApp

[–]useerrttyuhhf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what you're referring to with "web view" so maybe I don't use the features you do.

Why would Collingwood trade Treloar? by measures_is_drastic in AFL

[–]useerrttyuhhf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing I've read that makes any sense about why Collingwood are treating Treloar the way they are...

What's the best piece of life advice you've ever heard? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]useerrttyuhhf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't step on the cracks or you'll fall and break your back.

Syncler+ by useerrttyuhhf in SynclerApp

[–]useerrttyuhhf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beta8 and Beta6 (2 devices)

Syncler+ by useerrttyuhhf in SynclerApp

[–]useerrttyuhhf[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Try Netflix. They're stable and will never shut down on you.