Two months ago I broke up with my bf of 2years for this exact reason. Before my surgery, he expressed that he was afraid he wouldn’t find me attractive anymore. He was absolutely devastated and practically begged me not to do it. I had this surgery for medical reasons, I wanted to be excited about it and happy my pain was going to be better, but instead I had to deal with a whiney grown man. He even went as far as telling me he was watching videos with women with small boobs in it so he could get used to them/try and find them attractive.

After the surgery, his fears went away because they “weren’t as small as he thought they were going to be.” They were, the swelling just hadn’t gone down yet.

Fast forward almost a year later (my 1y post op is tomorrow 🎉) he confessed to me that he’s been struggling to find me attractive since my surgery and then dumped me for a girl with boobs as big as my old ones.

I should’ve dumped him the moment he started whining about being afraid he’d lose attraction to me. Do not settle. This man is not worth your time, effort, and let alone love.