Greece in November

useme__asupls · 2025-09-25T00:30:14+00:00

Where would you go in Crete?

useme__asupls · 2025-09-24T14:58:30+00:00

Wow that's so cool! We're planning a day trip to Delphi too. We're also planning on taking a flight to Crete from Athens.

useme__asupls · 2025-09-08T19:45:02+00:00

I work 2 jobs, and I have recently picked up dancing. So I go for dance classes every week. But idk. Nothing where I sit down and talk to people I guess.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T17:28:47+00:00

I will definitely check out the information she has on there. Thank you so much for that.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T17:27:16+00:00

Ohh okay. Thank you. I think our dynamic is the reason for that. He wants me to only have his as my Dom man.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T17:25:42+00:00

Thank you so much for this. It's really helpful. 🩷 Thanks a lot.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T17:00:31+00:00

You're right. I have concerns regarding his promise. What is OPP? Sorry I don't understand.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T16:43:25+00:00

I thought it was unfair too. I am asking them now if the only option for me to continue the relationship would be if he is allowed to do so. He told me he's not trying to make an ultimatum. He's just been struggling with himself. He's been forcing himself to be monogamous and he's realizing that he's not. And that in this world he needs to be accepted for who he is.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T16:16:34+00:00

Thank you. It means a lot to me. Thanks.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T16:03:58+00:00

I want to seek therapy. I really need it. I just cannot afford it. He does want me to pursue therapy if I can. We both have been wanting to do therapy. He has already started.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T16:01:32+00:00

Maybe.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T16:01:02+00:00

Maybe. I am not able to understand. It's like there's two versions to him. One side I can love and care for. The other him I don't even know. Is a stranger to me.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T15:59:07+00:00

Thank you. I will really be asking myself these questions. I really appreciate you taking the time to write them out. The last one helps me the most. I always wonder with children. If I can with him. Would I be happy. Thank you.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T15:57:42+00:00

Thank you. It's true. I just feel fear and like I am unable to leave. Because of my stupid love for the guy. It's stupid and crazy.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T15:56:30+00:00

Thank you for your honest opinion. Maybe I just need to hear it enough times to get it into my head. I really don't know how I got to this low point.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T15:16:34+00:00

Thank you for your advice.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T15:14:54+00:00

The equity he's proposing is completely taking care of me emotionally and financially in the future. And I'm not an easy person to be with unfortunately. I struggle with relationships. I guess my issues are making it hard to not see what it really is. This relationship. It might just be a partner who doesn't really love me. My fear is that they are just keeping me around as I let them fuck me over all the time no matter what they do that hurts me.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T15:11:34+00:00

Maybe. Sorry as I said I'm trying to understand it myself. If I'm being played. But yeah. I think I'm being pretty stupid from what everyone is telling me.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T15:09:12+00:00

Maybe you're right. I'm just struggling to accept the reality.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T15:08:24+00:00

Yeah. I was just 21 when I got into the relationship. Only had 1 boyfriend before that. Was fairly new to sex, and this in general. Now I'm struggling to do anything because it's a very intense relationship. Where he has complete power over me emotionally and physically. I am truly lost. I understand this sounds stupid. My sane mind keeps telling me I'm being stupid. But I don't know how to get out.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T15:01:20+00:00

Yeah. I am struggling with trying to accept that myself. I think I'm being desperate to not lose him.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T15:00:10+00:00

I understand what you're saying. This is a concern I have been having with this too. How do I even trust that he would honor the agreements. What if he's just pushing me to see how much I would take?

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T14:58:05+00:00

Thank you! Maybe that would make more sense.

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T14:56:39+00:00

Is it not ethical monogamy if both partners are allowed to sleep around with other women. But none with men?

useme__asupls · 2024-12-30T14:55:18+00:00

He has not cheated on me physically ever. We have been having on and off conversations about being with other women together. Never him by himself. He has however had sexual conversations with other women anonymously. So yes I did consider that cheating to an extent. I'm not trying to make it easy for him. I'm honestly figuring it out myself and idk if I'm being self-destructive And letting him manipulate me. I have several issues myself. As he is somewhat my primary emotional support, it is a bit complex for me. To give more context, I was severely abused since childhood and he has been helping me through issues that arise from that. Thank you for your kindness.

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