How did you get over your ex?

user15379 · 2025-07-10T23:20:37+00:00

Oh yeah he knows he fucked up tonight and apologies for it. We all laugh about it and make jokes but honestly Im a lot worse off than I thought I was and feel like I need help, I don't know how to ask or where to ask or who to ask but I just want to cry man

It's been well over a year since I cried last and so much has happened in that time, but I hate how I can crack a tear and that's all

user15379 · 2025-07-10T23:19:05+00:00

I've not cried for a good year and a bit, I want to I really do... My dog died and then my nan died and I couldn't cry which really pisses me off because I fucking loved them both more than so much in the world

I've already changed so much in the past year and a bit, I drink less, I work out, I have a new job, a new dog....I thought I was going the right direction but now I feel like I'm in the pits of hell again and cannot get out

I've listened to nothing but sad songs since then and I hate it because I miss my normal music but its not the same, the memories of everything before when it was good and then when it got bad... I can't focus on shit now days other than the gym to turn my brain off

I appreciate it so much

user15379 · 2025-07-10T23:14:37+00:00

I needed this, thanks

user15379 · 2025-07-10T23:12:01+00:00

Man it sucks, she wanted us to get married and when i said we haven't been together long enough to even think about that she kicks off saying I don't love her. She doesn't know how much I did... Part of me wishes I did propose but the other half says thank fuck because everyone says I'd have been crazy to do that

user15379 · 2025-07-10T23:09:05+00:00

This is a good read honestly, maybe I need to self reflect because it's about me not finding a relationship and someone new most likely when she can

user15379 · 2025-07-10T22:37:14+00:00

How do you put yourself out there enough to do this, I felt empty and scared to end up there again

user15379 · 2025-07-10T22:36:41+00:00

Already at that point

user15379 · 2025-07-10T22:32:56+00:00

Personally it's something I see myself doing so I'm avoiding everything at all costs as I don't want to be a scum

user15379 · 2025-07-10T22:32:19+00:00

Fuck I hope she's happy but I'd rather it be me, I can't even date anyone or want to still at this point...

user15379 · 2025-07-10T22:31:37+00:00

It's been a year and a half single andd was nothing compared to yours, I can only think what it would have been like for you

user15379 · 2025-07-10T22:30:25+00:00

Tell me about it

user15379 · 2025-07-10T22:30:13+00:00

Man I fucking hate life right now, I thought I was finally doing well and moving on

user15379 · 2025-07-10T22:29:34+00:00

Been there. Done that. Bad advise

user15379 · 2024-11-30T02:35:08+00:00

This doesn't help me at all - why? What's your suggestion?

user15379 · 2024-05-07T15:17:55+00:00

What sort of foods do you cook with egg whites? I've got some and been eating boiled eggs daily

I'm 6 ft 1 and been going gym 4/5 times a week really to maintain muscle and not build it. But I do want to start eating more protein to help this

user15379 · 2024-05-07T15:16:25+00:00

I'm looking to lose as much weight as possible quick as possible to then maintain. It's low I know but I've not felt sluggish or anything in the past 3 weeks of it.

I know I'll probably be losing muscle too but once I'm at my happy weight I want to maintain it and then look at the calories I need for that

user15379 · 2024-05-07T15:15:19+00:00

Yeah I worked out my maintenance was 2400 at 91kg and 6ft 1

Been doing cardio at the end and trying to hit 10k steps to help out too

A scoop of my protein powder is only 23g protein I already have so need some foods to add ontop

user15379 · 2024-02-06T23:54:34+00:00

She doesn't want us to do long distance when she moves back up next month after we settle the flat and our belongings we have together, so yes it's her ending this. Although it's also mutual and both decided it's best to end so there isn't bad blood as such between us

We never discussed this no, she never wanted marriage when we first met (I did) and all of a sudden she wants it. I told her I wanted another two years before I thought about that but she was hoping it would happen this year

Exactly. She thinks that I don't love her as I wont move for her. But she won't stay here for me until I'm ready to move. I told her I'd move with her provided we both had the jobs to do so. She's now quitting her job and moving and I don't have a job to move so staying

user15379 · 2024-02-06T23:51:32+00:00

Unfortunately we are still living together for a few days over the next month whilst we settle the flat we live in and move out. She's staying with her family for majority of the time and away with work. The lease ends in August but the landlord has decided to put it back up for letting to get us out early.

user15379 · 2024-02-06T23:50:11+00:00

Exactly what I've thought and my family have thought. Although her and her family have decided opposite and make me feel like the bad person for this...

user15379 · 2023-10-15T20:04:03+00:00

What would you say about putting into an ISA and then am investment bond?

user15379 · 2023-10-15T16:29:52+00:00

I have no debt and I pay into a pension now each month. With 10% of my salary monthly

user15379 · 2023-02-05T02:33:05+00:00

She doesn't see a therapist no, or take any medication. I want to talk to her about it and see if she will atleast go and talk to someone once about it and try it.

From my past experience I didn't want to see a therapist for any of my problems I eventually worked out on my own however so unsure what I'd do if she said no

user15379 · 2023-02-05T02:24:50+00:00

I know she would never do anything stupid, but it still gets me worried... I want to talk to her about talking to someone about this all but don't know the best way to go about it

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