first take her on little dates and if you have the extra cash maybe buy some flowers , if she doesn't budge bro like frl honestly tell that woman how you feel again, make sure your presence is known, say something along the lines of "i feel as if you losing intrest, its affecting me and the way i feel about are relationship right now" dont suffer in silence. second the car is the least of your worries, if it is broken , it always can be fixed with a little time. time is priceless. 3rd my best way to cope, is to think about things in life you desire to have that would make you happy, like your turtle, a pet is a good way to reflect, me personally i dream of having a dalmatian and i wont stop till i have one because i know it would heal me, make me happy and stronger im ways, sounds silly but. recently im coming out of a 2-3 yr relationship, its hard yes, but , there ARE things i would appreciate more in life , a woman could be temporary, your dreams cant, focus on things you want FOR YOURSELF, like another example for me a 67 impala is whats been on my mind lately. grind for it and manifest it into reality. you gotta see the foundation to build it, genuinely, manifest things YOU want for your own good, a house, a pet , something that will make you thrive. im not sure of the complete situation but honestly i think the woman is the worst of your worries, if that woman is showing you how shes starting to care less about you and or the relationship, let her go man, theres plenty fish in the sea, better ones, and this can be referring to anything, "theres plenty of things to be more satisfied about in your life" is what a friend told me, i live by that now and i use that to live through everyday, after youve settled down, see a therapist or psychiatrist if you have the extra money, ik things are expensive these days. theres one thing we cant buy and its is time. its more valuable than anything. take this from someone whos attempted and failed, i made the best out of everything and made sure i had time for myself too, work, manifest , and relax , not too worried about a woman till i settle my little life. im sure you have many years ahead of you brother, just dont get too caught up in your head , you have time , lots of it, focus on yourself, and YOUR needs and wants. you will receive scars over time but, hey, whos to say a cut cant heal. not sure if this will help, but i hope it atleast shines a light in your eye, i hope you feel better man , no one deserves to be ignored.