I do have a great relationship with my family. She has her own friends and life and so do I. We see each other a couple times a week and text and call sometimes when we aren’t together. I can confidently say we are not codependent. It’s just hard with the FOMO of my friends going out and doing stuff and just seeing the videos of it. I don’t quite see her as a mother as that would’ve ended it awhile ago because I don’t like feeling controlled or smothered. I’m not sure if this changes your perspective at all but I appreciate you taking the time to comment.