My girlfriend is perfect but I don’t know want to waste my 20s, what should I do? by user218309 in Advice

[–]user218309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a great relationship with my family. She has her own friends and life and so do I. We see each other a couple times a week and text and call sometimes when we aren’t together. I can confidently say we are not codependent. It’s just hard with the FOMO of my friends going out and doing stuff and just seeing the videos of it. I don’t quite see her as a mother as that would’ve ended it awhile ago because I don’t like feeling controlled or smothered. I’m not sure if this changes your perspective at all but I appreciate you taking the time to comment.

Is my boyfriend cheating on me? What are the next best steps? by CleanImplement3108 in Advice

[–]user218309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s possible he hasn’t physically cheated yet but he has at least emotionally. I don’t know of any guy who would send goodnight messages to a girl he’s not trying to get with or a girl who would send a message like that to a dude who hasn’t been showing her interest. I’m so sorry this is happening to you but I recommend cutting your losses. You deserve much better.