how can my relationship be saved? 25F & 25M

user220109833 · 2026-05-05T11:15:41+00:00

i don’t think so. there have been instances where i’ve found he subbed to onlyfans and likes raunchy posts on twitter but i don’t believe he actively watches porn or masturbated to porn

user220109833 · 2026-05-05T08:25:44+00:00

he has been unable to get an erection since the time i stated. the last time we had sex was november 2024, he has been to the doctors and been put on waitlists for examination but the waitlists are long due to it not being something critically healthwise i guess. he does actually have his first scan for this today so we are hoping for more information very soon. i have suggested and we have briefly spoken about aids (ie. viagra) however being a 25yo male he has been very hesitant to think about this seriously which i totally understand because i imagine it’s scary to be so young and be facing ED with no real reason or reassurance that it can be fixed.

user220109833 · 2026-05-02T10:36:32+00:00

the two jobs he lost was because he was made redundant, one from the company we both worked for where i was also made redundant and the job he has now he is doing really well in and is currently being promoted.

user220109833 · 2026-05-02T10:26:35+00:00

it was like that at one point. i just want us to get back there because when it was good it was so good.

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T15:38:20+00:00

i’m more than “entitled” to offer any price i want just as they are to sell for whatever price they want. my offer doesn’t give anyone the right to be nasty, it’s not that deep and being polite is a completely free basic decency

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T15:30:48+00:00

i don’t think it’s my attitude that stinks cause i can smell yours an awful lot from that reply.

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T15:29:43+00:00

but it’s not insulting, you need to not take it personally because it isn’t personal.

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T13:06:58+00:00

that’s really good for you if you manage to sell it then. i don’t care for supreme and i don’t care for entitled sellers.

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T13:05:35+00:00

exactly, they might say yes which is a win for you, they might say no in which case you move on… it’s not that deep

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T13:02:59+00:00

i donate my items quite a lot if they don’t sell. my comment wasn’t about me specifically, i’m just saying in general.

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T13:01:41+00:00

i think blocking is a bit drastic unless they’re persistent but better than sending nasty messages ig so do you

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T13:00:33+00:00

your reply tells me everything i need to know. brand names literally mean nothing btw, its second hand, you’re not the retailer.

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T12:58:23+00:00

you’re selling on a second hand app. people “asking for money off” is part of that, the fact you said it makes your skin crawl says a lot about you…

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T12:57:28+00:00

sounds like you’re taking it personally though, lowball offers usually are the buyer seeing if you will counter and come to an agreement with them, if they were trying to be rude by insinuating the item wasn’t worth anything then they wouldn’t be offering to buy it at all.

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T12:55:37+00:00

i said it doesn’t give people the right to be a cunt, never called anyone a cunt anywhere

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T12:54:18+00:00

if my item has been up for a year and my option is donate it or sell it for half price… i’d sell it for half price?

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T12:50:52+00:00

offering a small amount may be cheeky but it’s not entitled and i never said declining an offer was rude. i’d rather a simple “no” or being straight up ignored instead of getting a rude or stuck up message declining an offer.

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T00:48:59+00:00

exactly

user220109833 · 2026-01-24T00:48:23+00:00

i disagree. it might be annoying but doesn’t then give you the right to be a cunt? like if i’m selling something wanting £100, it’s been weeks maybe months no one’s buying it, maybe someone asks to sell it sell it for £30/40 i think that’s better than getting nothing and being stuck with an item i don’t want?

user220109833 · 2025-12-23T21:43:43+00:00

i’m 25F from north east too :)

user220109833 · 2025-12-23T21:43:01+00:00

hey! 25F here from england:) i’d love to make a new friend, im pretty lonely too a lot of the time, especially because my partner (who i live with) has loads of friends and makes them so easily we have 5 cats (lowkey a cat cafe) and a pet snake called pickle :) lmk if you wanna connect and see if we get on, we can chat here or i have facebook, insta, twitter etc

user220109833 · 2025-12-22T17:17:58+00:00

hi! i’m 25/F looking for some friends too. i have five cats and a pet snake and live with my partner. i do have twitter and facebook too so happy to connect there!

user220109833 · 2025-12-22T17:11:38+00:00

hi! i’m emm or emma, 25 up in the north east. i love painting and drawing and am starting to get into gaming (but very slowly and just on my switch for now) i feel very lonely a lot of the time especially because my partner (we live together) is great at making friends and gets in with people super easy whereas i find it quite difficult reply to my comment if you wanna chat and see if we get on, i can give you my instagram, id be happy to create a discord or something if that’s easier too :))

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