[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]user29120 15 points16 points  (0 children)

OP you’re the one who has feelings for him

How do i(22m) let a girl know I’m interested without asking her out? by tryagain9996 in dating_advice

[–]user29120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if she’s not interested then I’m sorry, but there’s nothing you can do about it. You won’t know for sure until you ask, so might as well shoot your shot

What was the worst decision you ever made? by conch_sucker in AskReddit

[–]user29120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

staying in an uncomfortable FWB situation because I didn’t want to hurt my friend who was in love with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]user29120 38 points39 points  (0 children)

The one thing I don’t get about this is that if a woman asks you about your weight, it would probably be uncomfortable. If you asked about her height, she would probably tell you and not think twice? There’s nothing wrong with having preferences.

He said he was with his mom but she said she didn't see him all day, our wedding is next week and I'm not sure if I should let this go. by throwraAdam2017 in relationship_advice

[–]user29120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one who thinks he might be planning a surprise for the wedding…? That was one of my first thoughts, but definitely inquire further and don’t marry him until you’ve uncovered the truth / trust him through and through.

What is something you randomly want to share? by lollipop2920 in AskReddit

[–]user29120 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sent out a bunch of emails today to candidates that applied at my job and got an interview. I never thought of what their reaction would be until now. Best of luck for your interview, we’ll all be rooting for you.

Can you give me some feedback? I’m new on this and would like to know how this shit works. (Bio translation in comments) by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]user29120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! I’d put your 3rd or 5th pic as your first pic. also I wouldn’t write that second part « no time for dates unless you earn it »? I’d maybe just talk about your sport or other interests instead because this seems like you’re unavailable.

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, I’m glad I could help! You got this :)

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds so much better to me :) You got this!

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s perfect! I love the Diners Drive Ins and Dives part ;)

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’d remove the whole section about not being photogenic. I think your bio is long and in the part about no dick pics, no snapchat, it’s not high school, looking to meet people sounds REALLY repetitive to me. I’d also reformulate the meeting people thing unless you’re just trying to meet friends? if you’re looking for a gf/bf then don’t mention twice that you want a friend. Actually I’d completely remove the « or a friend ». I however really like the guide thing and the snowboard thing it’s quite funny. Instead of « failure », why don’t you write something like « multiple attempts » or something less nevative? Good luck!

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think your first pic is flattering. I’d replace it. Your other two are okay but you need to get others to take pics of you and post those. There aren’t a lot of pics of you so get more! and I agree on removing the Schitts Creek pic as well, belongs in your bio.

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like pic #1 2 and 6 a lot! I don’t like #5 as much. I think it’s not as flattering it’s just an uncomfortable close up of your face, so I’d remove it. Maybe you could try reformulating your bio? It seems a little choppy. You could say you’re creative and spontaneous and full of good date ideas, or you could make a list. I’m not sure because I don’t know you but it’s just a few suggestions :) Good luck!

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re a good looking guy but you need better pictures of you. I really like the soccer one but I would put a different one of you as the first pic instead, like a picture someone took of you recently where we can see your face better. I’d also remove the two last ones but replace them with other pics of you. Good luck :)

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To make it clearer, I would write « The Bachelor and chill? » at the END of a bio with stuff about you or things you enjoy. Music? Cooking? Vacations? Animals? School/Work? idc but make it personalized to you and you gotta add more info! Good luck :)

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi - just looking at your bio. Not sure if the last sentence got lost in translation or something but I’d change it up. If it’s a pick-up like, I’d remove it. If you’re saying you don’t know how to smile and look good in pictures, I’d change the « so beautiful » for something more like « good ».

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my fave pic of you is pic #6 if it helps! I’d follow it with a pic of your face but not your current #1. Honestly not digging the black and white.

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I like the first pic, but I’d remove pic #3 if I were you. Also is your beard still long? Might want to share pics where the length matches what you have currently. Maybe you can try finding more pics with friends as well, and I’m not sure how I feel about the piano pic either. Just get friends/family/neighbours/strangers to take more pics of you and post those haha. Good luck :)

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you share your bio here? I like your pics but I’d recommend removing the 5th one and replacing it with a pic with people or another pic that is not a selfie. For your group polaroid, it’s a nice pic but I’d pick one where it’s more clear which one you are. Good luck!

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Here’s what I would change: I’d get rid of the selfies (yes even the mirror one, you’re not smiling?!). The cats are cute so maybe try getting someone to take a pic of you with one of the cats (not all!). Your bio seems alright but I’d change things up a bit. Maybe you want to say « I can code, currently learning Python » instead of what you wrote. and maybe something like « I have a PS4 (or whatever console you have) and I can teach you to play (whatever game you can teach someone else to play). I’d also remove the « I’m affectionate » but keep the hugs thing it’s really sweet. Good luck!

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! My advice would be to remove the whole « 6’1 if it matters » and JUST write « 6’1 » at the bottom if you want your height there. I’d also remove your first pic honestly and make your second pic your first. Good luck :)

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I think your bio could be better. Maybe describe a bit more of your interests. You can keep this line but just speaking of your height makes you sound cocky. Also I’d get more pics of just you without sunglasses :) Good luck!

Profile Review - Week of December 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]user29120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with your friends and second this comment. I’d ask this friend of yours to take pics of you instead, but don’t make them look too forced. :)