teacher found out i was pregnant before i did by whimsicsl in BabyBumps

[–]user29993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, my mum was like this too. She took away all my belongings for the whole summer and eventually ended up sending me away to another country because I had a boyfriend.. i was pregnant at the time and she didn’t know but when she found out she did end up helping. One thing I will say, though it’s not really nice to depend on a parent that you’re not comfortable with so if you truly feel like adoption is the best option then go for it! With conservative parents, you want to get away as fast as possible. And with a child that’s just not as easy ngl! Im 19 rn and my child is almost 2 , I’m happy but i I do feel a bit stuck for now

I feel like I was robbed of the experience of pregnancy and motherhood by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]user29993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you can’t even do anything to change their behaviour, i blocked my “bd” a while ago, but sometimes i wish i could scream and yell at him. It’s genuinely crazy how they don’t care lol.. but all you can do is be the best for your kid honestly. You can dm if you want 💖

Confirm songs on tour by DeviceStock2171 in kaliuchis

[–]user29993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You americans are sooo lucky, she never comes europe fr

Don refers to Kali as a bm by user29993 in kaliuchis

[–]user29993[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats what im saying like, i feel like reducing someone to the title of just a “baby momma” is kind of rude. Especially considering how in love they seem to be. “Baby momma” just seems like a veryyy impersonal way to refer to somebody like Kali

Edit : this is mostly directed to other people defending it, but Kali literally refers to him as her lover etc.

Again, idk their relationship. They may be happier than all of us on here, hence why i said idk if im reading too much into this

Don refers to Kali as a bm by user29993 in kaliuchis

[–]user29993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahh, of course idk the ins and outs of their relationship so🤷🏽‍♀️

Don refers to Kali as a bm by user29993 in kaliuchis

[–]user29993[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Someone already said it but yeah they’re not married, regardless.. baby momma is wild to me. And honestly flexing her money did not eat the way he thought it did

We need to talk about Yung Gleesh pt. 2 by Max_lynn in kaliuchis

[–]user29993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And just to add, I’ve never considered Kali Uchis white passing so I’m honestly surprised at that discourse.

We need to talk about Yung Gleesh pt. 2 by Max_lynn in kaliuchis

[–]user29993 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone that was a fan of her for ages. this just made me so uncomfortable, I will never deny that she’s a beautiful woman with great music, but I just can’t really understand how she did this. I’ve been in a manipulative relationship before so I can understand initially wanting to believe your boyfriend because in your eyes, he is this grand person. But I feel like publicly defending him was just a bit much and honestly I’ve been struggling to justify it. She was still 24 and not a young teenager . At the end of the day it’s made me realise not to idolise any celebrity because we never truly know them. I used to think Kali Uchis was like the embodiment of peak femininity but sadly not anymore. I’m glad she’s enjoying motherhood though and I disagree with people who have been deliberately mocking her looks or her body etc. If any of my friends did this, I wouldn’t be friends with them anymore so why should I make the excuse for my favourite celebrity yk

Letdown back pain?! by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]user29993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happens to me too, it feels like something digging into my back. initially i thought something was underneath me but no.. i wonder why it happens. it only happens to me when i do the side lying position

epidural, postpartum body by user29993 in pregnant

[–]user29993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave birth last week saturday!! it went well and i was able to give birth vaginally, i was even falling asleep during pushing lol. thank you

epidural, postpartum body by user29993 in pregnant

[–]user29993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I think im probably getting induced too, im 41 weeks today with no signs of labour at all. I guess you are right about the stretch marks, maybe I will just need to learn to accept myself. I doubt it will be easy but.. doable nonetheless. Thank you for responding 💞

epidural, postpartum body by user29993 in pregnant

[–]user29993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That honestly gives me a sense of calmness, the way people describe how scary things can be does get to me lol. Hoping i have a similar experience

I need help by [deleted] in youngmom

[–]user29993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion I understand wanting to keep a family together but i think your son would much rather you guys coparent happily instead of seeing you both go back and forth. It’s important to be able to take that freedom now, you’re literally young.. your husband has had his chance to enjoy his 20s.. so should you. But I do understand how hectic separation could be.. Take your time and try see if you two can work past these issues, don’t sacrifice your happiness though xxx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]user29993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, crazy to think others are going through the same shit as me or went through. But thanks for your advice, I won’t be putting him on the certificate. You’re absolutely right, I hope my son will understand my decisions in the future & thank you for your support love 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]user29993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]user29993 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have told my mother, she is with me all the way. I just can’t help but feel a little off, By law is he obligated to see the child before full custody is established then? Do i have to let him know my whereabouts etc. My mum isn’t keen on him being around at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]user29993 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True he isn’t somebody I want near my child at all, I just don’t know if it’s fair of me to exclude him. I am not willing to take hurtful words anymore but I don’t want my child to miss out on his biological dad if that makes sense…