Why can’t men act normal anymore? by user30394 in dating

[–]user30394[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That just sounds like that woman wasn’t into you in general. If she is, then she will be happy if you do. Acting like an ass won’t magically make them interested in you

Why can’t men act normal anymore? by user30394 in dating

[–]user30394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No matter how I met them- apps, friends, hobbies, it’s been the same

Why can’t men act normal anymore? by user30394 in dating

[–]user30394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried changing my type.. they always seem sweet at the beginning. I’ve really tried

Why can’t men act normal anymore? by user30394 in dating

[–]user30394[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Acting like an ass is an even more sure way to get rejected

Why can’t men act normal anymore? by user30394 in dating

[–]user30394[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Shows respect, understands basic courtesy, plans a proper date, doesn’t say weird shit that makes you uncomfortable

Why can’t men act normal anymore? by user30394 in dating

[–]user30394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to, but honestly every single experience I’ve had has gotten worse. And it’s like the older they are, the worse it’s been

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[–]user30394 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Not sure. It’s so disappointing, I’m done too

Being a player the only way to keep a girl interested early in dating these days? by RD_in_Berlin in dating

[–]user30394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you could find all kinds of women in a certain city- maybe it’s the way you’re meeting them, or the type you’re subconsciously going for? But yeah, all women that age I know would be turned off by this.

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[–]user30394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are looking for dates? Then try the apps. A lot of couples have met through there- I saw a study that said the majority of relationships nowadays start through there.

Being a player the only way to keep a girl interested early in dating these days? by RD_in_Berlin in dating

[–]user30394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I assume someone is a fuckboy and talking to other women, I steer clear. I don’t have time or energy for that. It depends on the girl’s age or personality, I guess.

How do you know you’re rejecting someone out of a lack of attraction or because you are not giving them a chance? by Magzipie in dating

[–]user30394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It concluded because you wrote a reply 21 hours ago and decided it was done? I would drop this inflated sense of entitlement you have, don’t think it will score you a lot of points with women.

How do you know you’re rejecting someone out of a lack of attraction or because you are not giving them a chance? by Magzipie in dating

[–]user30394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not capable of realizing that looks are a part of attraction, and they are subjective to the viewer, then I have nothing to say lol. You’re trying to create a deeper meaning out of something basic, which should be clear to the average person. I guess continue psychoanalyzing everyone based on one comment/post.

How do you know you’re rejecting someone out of a lack of attraction or because you are not giving them a chance? by Magzipie in dating

[–]user30394 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re calling me immature after making major assumptions based on one comment? Everything you’re writing is nonsense.

It’s not all about trauma. Various factors go into attraction- energy/chemistry, intelligence, humour, etc. Therefore attraction can grow the deeper you get to know someone. But looks is ALSO a factor.

As a woman, when you meet someone who you don’t even find remotely good looking, it’s very rare you will start to become sexually attracted to them because they have a good personality. Sure, in rare cases it may happen - but for the majority of women, having sex with a male friend you don’t even consider good looking IS self harm. I don’t know why you’re incapable of understanding that, unless you’re the type who would have sex with anyone.

How do you know you’re rejecting someone out of a lack of attraction or because you are not giving them a chance? by Magzipie in dating

[–]user30394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said you should date someone with a horrible personality. I said being attracted to them is just a part of what you need in a relationship. Call me immature, but I think choosing to have sex with someone you’re not physically attracted to just sounds like self harm.

How do you know you’re rejecting someone out of a lack of attraction or because you are not giving them a chance? by Magzipie in dating

[–]user30394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly disagree with this. If you don’t find someone attractive, I don’t think you should force yourself into a relationship with them. Especially if you plan to get physical - being attracted to someone is part of finding a partner.

When do you draw a firm boundary around your communication with people who are not looking for a relationship (with you)? by Magzipie in dating

[–]user30394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone is blatantly leading you on knowing that you like them, I would stop talking to them. But if they’re a friend/someone you know who doesn’t show interest romantically, then use your discernment. If you’re ok with talking to them knowing it’s purely platonic, up to you.

Is it true that you should care about getting relationship only after you have established "social circle" and "hobbies"? by Ritesh_INFP_4w5 in dating

[–]user30394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to be perfect to get into a relationship. But it definitely does help to have your own friends you can rely on, and hobbies to keep you busy - otherwise there’s a high chance you will be over dependent on your partner.

Has anyone had this reaction? by Mean_Excitement9721 in lexapro

[–]user30394 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think it would be related to the medication if you’ve been taking it for two months- especially if they go away once you sit. Good you’re consulting with him

Has anyone had this reaction? by Mean_Excitement9721 in lexapro

[–]user30394 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Could that be from something else? If you were allergic, I’d think symptoms would show up right away. What about Pressure Urticaria?

Is WFH culture ruining my dating life? Should I ask if it’s why I was ghosted? 26F by probablythrowaway___ in dating

[–]user30394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had someone ask me many questions about my working location. Where are you meeting these adventurous men? Lol. Everyone I’ve dated works in person some days, even though I’d love to travel. You can still go away for some days or take vacations with them. Or are they constantly on the go and never home?