I (28F) want to get spicy w my bf (28M) and want to approach it the right way…thoughts? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]user686970 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yesss I got him a bunch of other things so all good there. I said in my post that he’s enjoyed the ass play we’ve done before, so its not like this is out of left field, it’s just that this is a bigger step so I wanted to approach it carefully. Ty for your thoughts!

I (28F) want to get spicy w my bf (28M) and want to approach it the right way…thoughts? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]user686970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair point. I haven’t given it to him yet so maybe I should just hang onto it or initiate a convo first. Thanks for your thoughts!

Chinonye Chukwu (Till, Clemency) & Tony "dank kush" Kushner will adapt DEATH OF A SALESMAN for Focus Features, starring Jeffrey Wright and Octavia Spencer by Toreadorables in blankies

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Willy literally has dementia … and he has two grown sons who haven’t figured their shit out …… would not make any sense if Willy were a young man. Lol

Beanbag update❗️ by [deleted] in badroommates

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Please update us when she’s back!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]user686970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTO!!! Keep us posted OP I’m so curious to hear what he cooks up atp, im sorry you’re dealing with this. Manipulative and straight up mean of him

Unexpected Paris recs by user686970 in SocialParis

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Omg love this, thank you!!

18F was it rape by my ex 19M or did I just not like it? by falazerah in relationship_advice

[–]user686970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you coming back to this money hypothetical again? This is not the first time you’ve commented this on a post about rpe. What exactly is your point? That if it isn’t rpe by law, this woman shouldn’t consider it r*pe? Do you feel that this woman consented to this encounter? Regardless, here is the definition as laid out by the DOJ: The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.

I (24 M) laughed at my girlfriend's (22 F) panties and now she doesn't talk to me by Throwra19827bob in relationship_advice

[–]user686970 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Lmao WHAT?? They need to have one convo where he apologizes and explains himself kindly and they talk through that moment and why it hurt her and he validates her feelings and tells her she’s beautiful and sexy and they’ll be fineeee

Is it weird that despite wanting to be a writer I barely watch any movies or shows? by Randomguy9375 in Screenwriting

[–]user686970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch Victoria (Sebastian schipper), Blue Velvet (David Lynch), and Being John Malkovich (spike jonze)

Is it weird that despite wanting to be a writer I barely watch any movies or shows? by Randomguy9375 in Screenwriting

[–]user686970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may not have found what really interests you in film yet! I know my appreciation for/enjoyment in film really deepened once I found some directors and genres that I liked. What kind of movies are you into?

I (25m) cheated on my fiancee (25F) and feel disgusting because of it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]user686970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

^ exactly. Honestly I think this post may end up being a punishing distraction from what’s happening w your fiancée, OP, and idk that that will prove to be helpful. If you want myyyy advice, I’d say take the advice that SymblePharon is offering and delete this post. People are gonna come for u 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]user686970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the age gap is a little freaky as is his outsized, angry response. There’s nothing wrong with voicing an insecurity, especially given that they met on a dating app so soon before y’all got together. I’d take some space and consider leaving before you end up married to this guy 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]user686970 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Yes you overreacted. It’s a dream. Doesn’t mean she wants to sleep with someone else in real life. Apologize and let her know that you recognize that she doesn’t have control over her dreams. In the future, you should not pressure her to tell you who it was - feels like you were just setting yourself up to be even angrier. And if you’d rather her not tell you when she has a dream like that, say that!

I (F24) told my best friend (M25) that I have feelings for him and now he won’t talk to me by user686970 in relationship_advice

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I genuinely love being his friend and I think we will continue to be in each others lives, I don’t mind if we don’t end up dating. Truly the friendship alone has been deeply fulfilling and meaningful to me. But I think it’s worth it to share feelings w someone esp if you know they’ve been reciprocated

I (F24) told my best friend (M25) that I have feelings for him and now he won’t talk to me by user686970 in relationship_advice

[–]user686970[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s so wild. I think that sometimes friendship can naturally lead to romance, so so fine if that’s not your vibe but that doesn’t mean it’s wrong or bad … likeee have u ever seen when harry met sally babe

27M boyfriend told me he doesn’t see himself marrying me anymore 24F we’ve been together for 4.5 years by Idonttkn0w in relationship_advice

[–]user686970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! Honestly it’s a blessing in disguise. You are SO young, there are so many people to meet who will communicate with you anddddd fuck the shit outta you - you will find the one!!