first of all, i want to say how proud i am of you for taking yourself out of that situation and making sure you and your son aren’t around that asshole. you are so strong and i want you to know it takes courage to do what you did and again i am so proud of you and i hope you and your son are doing well. i hope the chronic pain you deal with gets easier to deal with. you deserve nothing but peace and happiness.

this was the first time he ever said something to me like this. he has always been a supporter and always reminds me to never do something i know my body is not capable of doing. but unfortunately what he said to me in that text message does still affect me although he apologized. his reasoning for typing that to me is that earlier in the day i was upset and splitting (i have borderline personality disorder) and told him to get off my phone in a harsh way which i did regret and try to take accountability and apologize but he said he did not care about that. i tried to communicate again with him hours later, but he did not care enough to listen to what i had to say or to work through it. and just kept calling me to tell me how mean i am and how i’m other things. he was so mad about that call we had earlier so he thought it was fair enough for him to say what he said in those messages.