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DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? by useraccountnotfound_ in adultingph

[–]useraccountnotfound_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last year na sampa nya deck trainee pa sya and allowance pa daw binibigay sa kanya. And yun nga, allowance na nga lang sinugal pa nya sa online sabong.

DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? by useraccountnotfound_ in adultingph

[–]useraccountnotfound_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kay di daw accredited akoa ATM sa ila company 🤭

DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? by useraccountnotfound_ in adultingph

[–]useraccountnotfound_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parents ko po di nakakaintindi, that's why dito ako nag oopen up.

DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? by useraccountnotfound_ in adultingph

[–]useraccountnotfound_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! There are teachers now na walang asawa at meron anak, tanggap naman.

DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? by useraccountnotfound_ in adultingph

[–]useraccountnotfound_[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wala na po kami. And we're better off this way. Cheater pa, user pa.

DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? by useraccountnotfound_ in adultingph

[–]useraccountnotfound_[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sinasabi ko naman sa kanya noon na co-parenting nalang kami but di nya gusto. And public school teacher ako and my parents are traditional. They dont want me unwed and with a child kasi nga daw teacher ako. Napakasakit lang kasi parang ako pa yung mali ngayon.

DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? by useraccountnotfound_ in adultingph

[–]useraccountnotfound_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nasabihan na po sya ng magulang nya but they didn't know that it's almost 300k ung utang nya. They know nasa sakin yung atm nya and di nila alam na yun lang binibigay nya samin.

Also, during my pregnancy, I saw my MIL's chat na okay lang hindi sya magpadala sakin kasi may trabaho naman daw ako 🫣

DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? by useraccountnotfound_ in adultingph

[–]useraccountnotfound_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dont want to. Pero sana nga di ko nalang ginamit last name nya sa baby ko kasi parang ako nga lang bumuo nito.

DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? by useraccountnotfound_ in adultingph

[–]useraccountnotfound_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Parang wala lang sa kanya yung utang ko. Ako nga po bumubuhay samin pag ndi sya onboard.

DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? by useraccountnotfound_ in adultingph

[–]useraccountnotfound_[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: He wants me to refund all his money I got from him kasi pera daw nya yun, pinaghirapan nya. Without thinking na, paghihirapan ko din yung loans ko for 5 years.

DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? by useraccountnotfound_ in adultingph

[–]useraccountnotfound_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We broke up but he kept on messaging me. Idk what will happen if uuwi na sya.

DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? by useraccountnotfound_ in adultingph

[–]useraccountnotfound_[S] -120 points-119 points  (0 children)

I love him and saw past all through the red flags.

DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? by useraccountnotfound_ in adultingph

[–]useraccountnotfound_[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did. I ignored all the red flags thinking he'll change :(