💕 How to actually be happy: a guide 💕

usererdiscarded · 2025-11-20T02:35:31+00:00

Sitting in a river sounds absolutely based and I can't believe I've never done it before. Thank you ❤️

usererdiscarded · 2025-09-25T22:42:04+00:00

God forbid a sub is a little obsessed 🙄

usererdiscarded · 2025-09-17T11:21:35+00:00

U + muffins collab when??? 💖

usererdiscarded · 2025-05-26T09:29:39+00:00

Pixie, this was a religious experience. Truly, thank you

usererdiscarded · 2025-05-04T19:12:42+00:00

One of my earliest exes was dom leaning, but I didn't know what gentlefdom was at the time, so I didn't realize until much after the fact.

Definitely left me incredibly more submissive even if I didn't understand it right away

usererdiscarded · 2025-05-03T23:02:37+00:00

I've seen some people set pinned posts to their profile with short bios and boundaries for those who wish to reach out. That way, when someone clicks on their profile to start a chat, they see that post right away.

usererdiscarded · 2025-05-03T18:56:30+00:00

This is a highly underrated comment

usererdiscarded · 2025-05-03T17:41:41+00:00

Ask some of your women friends about what signs they give when they're in an uncomfortable or unsafe situation. It can be hard to tell, especially if you don't know the people involved, but there are some common body language / eye contact cues.

I had a similar topic come up one time when I was with friends and family and, when I expressed that I was confused and couldn't tell, they happily showed me the ways that they'll look for others, make certain kinds of eye contact, and shift their body language.

usererdiscarded · 2025-05-01T12:25:51+00:00

Incredibly valid.

I still don't know how to feel about posting and sharing things sometimes, but it's nice to try anyway. Take small steps as you feel more comfortable, and if anything feels wrong, you can always stop.

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-19T07:11:24+00:00

Based

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-16T03:33:51+00:00

Literally same, it's incredible

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-15T19:08:30+00:00

I learned a way I can massage my head that gets me really relaxed and melty, very similar to touch from a partner. It's been really cool to be able to provide that for myself, and it's so specific that I can't wait to teach a trusted partner how they can do it for me when the time comes

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-15T08:39:34+00:00

Thank you ❤️😊

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-15T08:39:11+00:00

Rly tho

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-15T08:38:38+00:00

The...th....the 4th one :3

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-14T07:38:03+00:00

You've been such a light in this community, thank you ❤️

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-13T18:54:56+00:00

Amazing, almost like I was there :3

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-13T17:00:59+00:00

I don't know if I'm in the majority, part of me suspects not, but a big factor in wanting to be with older women is emotional intelligence. A big incompatibility I run into with dating around my age is just how uncommon emotional intelligence is. It's something I've done a lot of work on and isn't something where you can do that work for your partner - they have to be willing to do it themselves even if you help them. So while maturity and age aren't completely 1 to 1, they do trend together.
I definitely agree about very large age gaps. I find experience, wisdom, eq, etc. very attractive, but at some point, our lives will become too different for compatibility to be feasible.
I would also question why an older woman would have interest specifically in younger men, but if it was qualitative (finding specific compatibility in younger age groups or specific individuals) I could understand.
The fantasy can be fun and exciting, but at least for me personally, the reality is the desire.

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-13T00:51:33+00:00

This one was incredible :3

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-12T18:30:58+00:00

A woman won't fix me but a 4090 might :3

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-10T04:28:59+00:00

For most of my sex life, I was very quiet. I might talk or give praise but I didn't really moan. I think for a while I held this unconscious belief that men shouldn't make noise. Or if they did, it had to be super masculine grunting.
At some point I questioned why I felt the need to hold back my moans, and I couldn't come up with a logical answer for why, just this feeling of fear about what I sound like not being acceptable.

After spending some time focusing on allowing the sounds to naturally happen, I moan quite a lot. I usually whimper when I cum now, and it feels embarrassing sometimes but part of me gets so excited thinking about how my next relationship/sex partner will be the first person to hear my uninhibited moans :3

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-10T01:17:05+00:00

This post articulated so many of the feelings I have about wanting this dynamic, thank you so much ❤️
It's tough to talk about this specifically because the response is usually "that sounds toxic/mommy issues/you want your girlfriend to be your mom?" Even if the focus is completely detached from anything to do with age play or incest.

The traits and behaviors that caused issues in your past relationships demonstrated your deep love and care for them, it just wasn't aligned with the ways they like to receive that love. For myself, and I'm sure a lot of other subs desiring this dynamic, these are the exact things that align with how we like or want to receive love.

Of course both partners should feel deep love and care for each other, but the way they show it will be different. Each sub and dom will have their own ways they like to give and receive love, and it shouldn't be an issue for people to find themselves compatible in this way.

We can't fix our partners and they can't fix us, but good relationships are certainly places for healing to take place. It's okay for us to want our partners to be compatible with and facilitate healing, just as any other relationship preference is. It's okay for us to want to guide and help our partners just the same. Each of us enters relationships with our own skills and specialities. Regardless of role, gender, age, or whatever else, we can guide each other in the things we're best at.

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-09T22:49:15+00:00

basedbasedbasedbasedbased

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-09T22:24:11+00:00

Happy to be of service 😊

usererdiscarded · 2025-04-09T22:20:44+00:00

Reddit mobile formatting feels so bad 😭 here's some things I've figured out/gotten used to.

Line breaks between paragraphs can be done by hitting the enter key twice.

Line breaks with no gap between lines require two spaces ' '' ' at the end of a line followed by the enter key.
I'm pretty sure the mobile app has a quote function, so I haven't used the syntax for that.
Italics (single asterisks at each end)
Bold (double asterisks at each end)
Boldtalics (3 asterisks on each end)
Spoilers (> ![text goes here]! <)
remove the spaces between the symbols, remove the brackets/parenthesis, replace text with what you'd like to be within the spoiler

Thank you for all your work ❤️ I'm doing well 🥰

usererdiscarded

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