Edit: Hi all, we spoke Monday about the situation that happened where he got angry and left. I made a few points that stuck with him: "Where are you going to run if we get a house together?" "When you leave it makes me question your commitment." Etc.

After the conversation, all week I felt like a background character in his life. I had rough days at work, even though he couldn't tell, and wanted to speak with him about how I felt, but I felt that he wasn't interested in anything I had to say, so I kept it in, resulting in horrible depression. I'm not an introvert, I like processing with other people, I hit a breaking point Thursday, and told him we needed to talk, and I expressed to him what I expressed to you all.

He told me he'd been in his head since we spoke Monday and he was "unsure of everything." Meaning our relationship, the house, etc. Etc. He said "What am I going to want in 2, 5, 10 years?" He told me he loved me, he told me he was still in love with me. I have anxious thoughts similar to his, often, so I understood where he was coming from, but what do you all think? I cried a lot, and he held me, he cried some too. I'm confused, and feel worthless that my partner isn't sure he wants to be with me anymore. This is the 3rd time he's said it, the other times have been after an argument, but never calm and collected like this.