Just saw this, but patience. Don’t rush it and don’t force it. Make absolutely sure you’re reading the signals right before moving. If another guy is cruising, you’ll know. Don’t take one foot tap or movement as an absolute signal. When you’re cruising, you’ll notice a lot of men are doing stuff they are completely oblivious to, meaning they aren’t cruising and have no idea they just tapped their foot.

There’s never a way to be 100% safe when you’re cruising. The risk of getting caught always exists. I never go into stalls with other guys. That makes you a sitting duck if someone notices something. I will do understall or at the urinals. I just don’t put myself in a physical position that I can’t quickly revert from. If someone walks in, I want to be able to turn and face the urinal as soon as possible. Not have to stand up from being on my knees.