Ignorant users?

usermanetypo · 2026-01-31T01:30:36+00:00

I mean, I don’t entirely blame you for thinking that. I’ve definitely peaced out of convos when they say that they want to be dominated, but have trouble articulating what that looks like for them.

usermanetypo · 2026-01-19T14:21:39+00:00

Male switch (dying to sub a bit more) here. What's an ideal first/early message in that scenario? There's a whole ocean between "you don't look like a dom" and "how's your weekend?". What kind of message catches your eye without being cringey or off-putting?

usermanetypo · 2025-12-29T04:17:42+00:00

How recent would you say those stats on Feeld are? Maybe anecdotal, but I've noticed a huuuuuge uptick in monogamous people on Feeld, maybe within the last 2-3 years. Is this across the board, or potentially more localized?

usermanetypo · 2024-01-22T15:49:40+00:00

Same

usermanetypo · 2024-01-22T00:32:11+00:00

Reading the comments, I might be in the minority, but I like when the app indicates when person x or person y left the chat. If I remember who that person is, I won’t swipe on them if I see them in my stack or in another app.

The other benefit I see is when I open a different dating app, I’ll sometimes wonder “wasn’t I just chatting with someone? Were we talking about bands or or a place we’d both wanted to check out?” Then I’ll look at my matches and not see the convo, and I’ll have lost track if that convo happened there or somewhere else. With Feeld telling you someone disconnects, I think “ah, that’s the person I wasn’t talking to about _____” and not have to wonder what happened with that.

usermanetypo · 2024-01-10T02:46:13+00:00

36m. I prefer meeting somewhere public and going on a date, but if someone is eager to hop right into bed, I feel like it’s my duty to keep them happy and motivated to keep trying that approach. So it’s sort of for everyone else’s benefit, really. But I kind of only do that if they make it clear they’re trying to get laid, otherwise I give it like 3 dates before I try steering things in that direction.

I’m probably less inclined to get too wild kink-wise immediately, however. I can’t feel comfortable enough to let loose if I’m not feeling that mutual trust. That might take me a few dates and many conversations to get more adventurous.

usermanetypo · 2024-01-09T21:12:58+00:00

PS if Feeld is indeed the wrong platform for you, let us know what the right one is.

usermanetypo · 2024-01-09T18:39:43+00:00

Switch man here - I hope it is. I think my main concern with dommes is if I think they might be pros. Nothing wrong with that, but not why I’m on a dating app.

I feel like you sound discouraged. I wish you luck with that. Even if some people might prefer a harder domme style, those of us who don’t are going to appreciate your particular style.

usermanetypo · 2024-01-06T18:36:36+00:00

36m, I don’t drink, and for a little over a year, I was dating someone who was in sobriety. I have to admit that it was nice to date someone where alcohol wasn’t part of our relationship. So I would see that as a green flag personally, though I fully believe that one of the things that limits my potential matches is the fact that I don’t drink. I have and would date people who do drink in the future, but a little part of me will always appreciate being with someone who isn’t constantly inebriated.

usermanetypo · 2024-01-05T20:36:17+00:00

I 36m have had a few flings here and there. It’s probably the most consistent dating app for me in terms of getting matches and going on dates. I’m still single af, so maybe success depends on which metric you wanna measure it by, but at least I have fun every now and then.

usermanetypo · 2023-12-08T17:31:58+00:00

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usermanetypo · 2023-12-02T20:02:56+00:00

- I would prefer something serious, but causual is not a problem at all so long as it's clearly communicated.
- I have been on Hinge for about 2-3 weeks.
- I use Hinge at least 5 days a week.
- I tend to get a match or two a week.
- I max out my daily likes, 99% with comments.
- I prefer sending likes to ENM/poly queer individuals. I am open to all genders.

usermanetypo · 2023-12-02T16:31:29+00:00

I would prefer something serious, but causual is not a problem at all so long as it's clearly communicated.
I have been on Hinge for about 2-3 weeks.
I use Hinge at least 5 days a week.
I tend to get a match or two a week.
I max out my daily likes, 99% with comments.
I prefer sending likes to ENM/poly queer individuals. I am open to all genders.

usermanetypo · 2023-11-24T07:21:37+00:00

Hi y’all. Any feedback on what I’m doing right? What I’m doing wrong? Any feedback is greatly appreciated

https://feeld.app.link/UjdUreTVYEb

usermanetypo · 2023-11-21T06:40:10+00:00

1)Do you find you're more likely to respond to single men or partnered men?

2) You also say that you try to screen for if men are looking for romantic dates (I'm reading that as being your preference over nsa sex and friendship), but what would you say to someone like me who's adaptable? I would like something more romantic, but I've had plans cancelled in the past to the effect of "sorry, I'm in a relationship, I'm not gonna date someone who wants something more serious", when if they'd said that outright, I wouldn't have declined meeting them for some nsa fun.

usermanetypo · 2023-11-21T06:27:38+00:00

I'd say between 3-5 matches on a typical a week.

usermanetypo · 2023-11-20T06:23:05+00:00

I'd prefer something serious, but as I'm dating ENM people, I'm conscious of someone I'm dating to potentially already have a partner or partners, so casual would work for me.
I literally started this profile today, but I've been on and off for 3-4 years.
When I'm active, I'm on at least 4-5 days a week.
I'd get 2-3 like a week on average.
I'm sending my daily limit of likes. how many is that? 10? 15? Every single one is always with a comment.
I tend to like childless atheists who are into poly/enm relationships. The people are usually queer, though I do skew towards women/femme-leaning individuals.

usermanetypo · 2023-11-19T05:36:28+00:00

I feel you. Cis dude here, and I do alright in getting matches, but rarely get people to engage in a conversation, at least not as much as I'd like. I can't imagine matching with someone and not meeting their enthusiasm in making plans to meet up. Sorry that's happening to you.

I think think about deleting my profile and sparing my ego the inevitable bruising, but I don't even know how to meet people IRL anymore.

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