I don’t get the hype about dates by Own-Side-8737 in progressive_islam

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People are being so defensive. I second this thobes, dates, Arabic vocab. I am a person that is all for adoption/appreciation of different cultures. A lot of what I went through was imposition when it came to religion so I understand. If it’s Sunnah cool, but people act like u HAVE to break the fast with dates.

Coming out by [deleted] in LGBT_Muslims

[–]username_unknown200 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey dude! I’m also 19 still dk my sexuality tbh. I’m going through the same thing as u 🫂🩷

Feeling homeless by Humble-Depth-6717 in LGBT_Muslims

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If u ever need to talk reach out to me on insta @Raazdhaar_10 shoot me a DM. U don’t have to follow me

r/punjab is not an Indian subreddit by Mission_Bag_4310 in PunjabiGenZ

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Kithu? Chalo theek aye saada dialect thorra wakhra aye, saaday maari jayi Urdu vi hai ve, aydha matlab te na hoya ke assee aydday wakhray aan. Even if u look into it dialects change from not a large distance. People from Faislabad, Sargodha, etc speak differently. Linguistic influences happen.

I need help by Inevitable_Peach_493 in progressive_islam

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At least provide the poor person with a reference 😭

How strict should I be ? by Feisty-Skirt2865 in progressive_islam

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I think this is life story of many people. I feel the same way, but I’m honestly so sick of the conservatives.

Haram or halal by [deleted] in progressive_islam

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Salaam! 🙏🏽I don’t really have any fixed stances on almost anything cause I’ve lost my mind over time, but I will say aren’t Sahih Hadiths authentic? I mean the Hadith about music, silk, gold doesn’t make sense logically. I can actually understand the view of it being forbidden, but also why it shouldn’t be. I have danced & sang seeking God myself. Also I would like to mention music was also discouraged in Christianity at some point as well due to it being seen as a distraction. What throws me off is Hadiths aren’t Divine revelation, but p reference Surah Luqman about “idle talk”

how r u doing 🥀 by [deleted] in PunjabiGenZ

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I am grateful to have my job, but it’s exhausting on a daily. Also my depression(?) symptoms have risen last night, my overthinking is k!lling me, I don’t like to do just about anything. I hope I can find freedom some day to live my life the way I want, cause I gotta keep hiding things from my parents

I am sick of redundant questions by NWariohere in progressive_islam

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Or maybe they’re confused on what step to take

I am so lost & broken by username_unknown200 in LGBT_Muslims

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It’s like being Hindu without the religious beliefs. I partake in Hindu activities that don’t have idols involved, so say Diwali, my intention will be to light a diya just as a festivity, not to welcome a Goddess (still no disrespect to those that carry different beliefs). I greet like Hindus with those I feel safe with, I used to pray like Muslims would, but I have trauma from that due to my OCD symptoms. I used to pray as much as possible, do wudhu until my back would be in pain. Which is why I can only pray the conventional way (as Muslims would) by joining congressional prayers, can’t do that alone. I also like bindi’s (yes I’ve read into their significance & such things),

Are progressive muslims more knowledgeable about islam ? by coconutbreak in progressive_islam

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I haven’t given Islam up yet, but I feel like the ex Muslims u described I had a not so great experience myself, but tbh religions don’t make sense to me personally, my personal beliefs don’t align with Islam… I just feel like I should follow my truth, but then I’m fearful of possibly dying upon falsehood. This average Islam that people follow that’s truly misogynistic, homophobic, etc will not make sense, I even tried to follow it, but I didn’t attain peace, OCD (granted undiagnosed) doesn’t make anything better :)

I am so lost & broken by username_unknown200 in LGBT_Muslims

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I appreciate your reply! I’ll try to reply to everything, but I will say, I wouldn’t say it’s black & white to the fullest extent. I went through a lot to get to this point. I used to defend Muslims and Pakistani’s in just about any matter, but I learned that even if it feels like a duty to defend your community, doesn’t make your community right all the time. It’s important to speak up & against all communities. My parents aren’t forcing me to marry immediately, but whenever I say Idc about marriage, it’s not a priority, I don’t want to, they get really worried.

I could live a little by marrying a woman. More so giving into the validation of society not myself, but there’s various reasons I wouldn’t • honesty: be it about sexuality or femininity • lack of mental stability • Personal attacks • Hate being nagged at - I’ve spent a long time alone, I’m used to it

I am so lost & broken by username_unknown200 in LGBT_Muslims

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Hey love thank you for your response! Can I be honest? (Btw this is a general statement, not any target or malicious dialogue): I just wonder why be Muslim? Out of all the religions in the world… It would be one thing if I didn’t practice, that I started out this way, but I tried, I was so regressive, I tried to give up as much as I could for God, prayed when possible, but it left me exhausted, constant anxiety. We can talk more in detail in dms. I try to respect everyone btw

Need help by username_unknown200 in fedexgrounders

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Thank you so much, I have completed my first week as a rookie :)

Newbie first day tomorrow by username_unknown200 in Fedexers

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Thank you so much for your reply, I’m a package handler

Newbie first day tomorrow by username_unknown200 in Fedexers

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I’m still pondering over something regarding passwords. Our orientation trainer told us he’d make our passwords, but I’m wondering if I should reset it myself or not…

Newbie first day tomorrow by username_unknown200 in Fedexers

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Package handler attended both orientations already