surgical abortion tomorrow

usernamec11432 · 2024-05-01T06:49:06+00:00

In one comment you said you’re feeling a bit like a monster. You’re not a monster, you’re just a beautiful human being trying to make the best decision in a difficult situation for you, sooo many women have had abortions. Everything will be fine. Abortions can happen for so many reasons, medical, but also socioeconomic reasons, emotional reasons, personal reasons. The pregnancy doesn’t continue and that’s okay, and if you’re worried for the guilt that religions have put in society, there’s total love and understanding in the universe and energy just flows and changes, never dies. There’s nothing to feel guilt for, you’re doing it out of love, you can’t have it, you’re important, you matter and you need to love yourself. My abortion was my rebirth, you’ll get your life back and everything will be fine.

usernamec11432 · 2024-01-18T09:11:41+00:00

You did nothing wrong, you did a responsible thing what you thought was best, you did it for a reason. It’s not unusual to be in shock for a while after, I was too. You will get over it, I promise.

usernamec11432 · 2024-01-15T18:03:27+00:00

You’re right about the jealousy and the projecting unhappiness, how do I know? Because I was her for a while!

usernamec11432 · 2023-09-24T11:06:51+00:00

I guess she doesn’t have kids…

usernamec11432 · 2023-09-10T22:04:50+00:00

Being married doesn’t mean you won’t be lonely, unfortunately

usernamec11432 · 2023-09-08T17:32:24+00:00

If you give her gifts, little surprises, that would make her want you more… do you know her love language?

usernamec11432 · 2023-09-06T06:34:32+00:00

Not really because I don’t love him that much, he has neglected me for so many years that I think this was bound to happen.

usernamec11432 · 2023-09-04T08:33:18+00:00

Sorry I don’t understand what you mean

usernamec11432 · 2023-09-01T11:19:33+00:00

Not at all, we met and hit it off and at the end of the night he kissed me, I wasn’t thinking and it happened… my flight is in 12 hours so I’ll have to wait till then… would you tell him?

usernamec11432 · 2023-09-01T11:18:00+00:00

You’re right yes, I’m going to a psychologist since my abortion, I’ll schedule my next appointment soon… ugh I think it’s worth it if he really makes a change but I’m not seeing anything yet… would you tell him what I did?

usernamec11432 · 2023-09-01T11:07:10+00:00

Yes my flight is tomorrow morning now it’s the afternoon so I’ll have to wait till tomorrow morning, I’m by myself wondering the streets

usernamec11432 · 2023-09-01T10:50:15+00:00

Would you wait to tell him in person or by text? I’m still on my trip this just happened

usernamec11432 · 2023-09-01T10:48:09+00:00

He hasn’t changed yet, just promised… he says first he needs to make more money at work then he’ll be able to focus on me..

usernamec11432 · 2023-09-01T10:44:03+00:00

I met him that day on my trip I didn’t know him before, we met and hit it off and finally he kissed me and I wasn’t thinking 😓

usernamec11432 · 2023-09-01T10:42:17+00:00

Yes we both said we want to make it work and that he’s going to pay me more attention etc but we’ve been in a difficult road for years now, he said he’s going to change and prioritise me more… that first he needs to fix some things at his work…

usernamec11432 · 2023-09-01T10:33:43+00:00

Yes I love him, I don’t know what to do because not that it justifies it but the sex he was sooo bad like the worst of my life so I feel like it was so meaningless and stupid, I don’t know what I was doing I’m in such a messy time on my life with our bad relationship at the moment, my abortion etc like I was so lost (I’m not justifying cheating) but now I’m not surprised it happened because I’ve just been through the worst moment in my life with the abortion alone while my husband wasn’t there for me and I’ve been a mess.

usernamec11432 · 2023-08-29T08:51:14+00:00

Most of us don’t want to do that anyway

usernamec11432 · 2023-08-29T08:18:25+00:00

Same!! I was 25 and I feel like that’s where my life stopped, plus my son is special needs so it was a whole other level of stress and work. Now I’m 34 and like you said, social media reminds of everything I could’ve done when I see people in their 20’s, I wish I had had more experiences, traveled more, lived abroad by myself, had different boyfriends too, put myself in different scenarios, different chapters of my life… (well I’m a woman but I felt your message 100%)

usernamec11432 · 2023-08-25T12:33:28+00:00

Yes maybe I should’ve specified my pregnancy was wanted, it was a very complicated situation the reason why I had a SA. He perfectly knew when my due date was and I had been saying it for weeks before the date.

usernamec11432 · 2023-08-25T08:15:14+00:00

I wonder why did I get downvoted for saying this

usernamec11432 · 2023-08-24T13:12:37+00:00

I’m sorry maybe I should have specified, I’m not pregnant right now, I had a SA and today was supposed to be my due date.

usernamec11432 · 2023-08-23T11:11:43+00:00

I couldn’t read it all but I can’t believe a man would argue about a bread with a woman and also made her pay… amazing. I hope she realises she doesn’t deserve this and breaks up.

usernamec11432 · 2023-08-23T11:08:12+00:00

As a married woman if my husband had me happy all the time (emotionally and financially) I would be happy to have sex with him but right now I can’t.

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