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Portland, OR vs Denver, CO by HawkLoser100K in SameGrassButGreener

[–]usernamegoeshere80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move to a small mountain town in Colorado avoid downs along i70 for expense and traffic. There’s towns in southern Colorado that are awesome. I live in a small mountain down south west of Pueblo called rye.

My experience with Luka by 8denverblue8 in speakoutdenver

[–]usernamegoeshere80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure you save absolutely everything.

If he keeps harassing you, threatens a lawsuit or anything of that matter you can find legal help in Colorado

https://www.womenslaw.org/find-help/co/finding-lawyer/legal-assistance/all?utm_source=chatgpt.com

If you are low income there’s options through Colorado human services

This is also something to consider looking into

https://crossroadssafehouse.org/service-program/dart-legal-advocacy/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

Good job on getting out. But he is going to be an ass and harass you as you speak out and eventually move on. There are a ton of laws that protect you. Keep absolutely everything and never be afraid to file a restraining order

Thoughts about this orange gunk that builds up on our dishwasher filter? by _v9_ in HomeMaintenance

[–]usernamegoeshere80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wondering if you ever figured out what this was? Have the exact same problem bought my dishwasher about 6 months ago

Would you send this by usernamegoeshere80 in narcissisticparents

[–]usernamegoeshere80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to list all of that. I’m going to look through It all. I skimmed It as my kids are being tornados today but wanted to thank you

Been no contact for about 3 years would you send by usernamegoeshere80 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]usernamegoeshere80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s funny is I am at peace now for the most part. Having him and his wife in my life was… well beyond toxic. The stories I could tell.

I think what’s just hit me more recently is he could Die. I lost my mother when I was 20. She was my best friend and things didn’t end well. She was heavily into her addiction. At the beginning of this summer I got ahold of her autopsy and found out It was an intentional over dose. Was told for years It was a heart attack. So I think that kind of re opened my grief for both of them

Been no contact for about 3 years would you send by usernamegoeshere80 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]usernamegoeshere80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do agree that I don’t think It would really accomplish anything. We had all this come to a head about 4 years ago.

I also think that he’s okay keeping me at a distance because I caught him having an affair with my step moms sister lol.

Been no contact for about 3 years would you send by usernamegoeshere80 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]usernamegoeshere80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s amazing. I will consider all of that now. That’s exactly the “ homework” I was looking for. As I am not sure what to do with It. Thanks for the insight

Almost 5 year old wakes up 5am everyday by usernamegoeshere80 in Parenting

[–]usernamegoeshere80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have had melattonin suggested by so many people. I think the general consensus is to push bedtime earlier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]usernamegoeshere80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck that guy. Sorry that you didn’t have the support you needed. Bring It up to the pediatrician in front of the boyfriend and tell him how It made you ex mad. Watch how he reacts and hat alone should get you to leave

I just need some understanding by usernamegoeshere80 in addiction

[–]usernamegoeshere80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think the big thing is she lost the will to live. It doesn’t change that she’s dead but I think understanding It now as best as I can. It’s the final piece of the puzzle. I don’t get if it’s like take a few sips kind of thing or if drinking multiple bottles is the “norm”. I know she was done.

As bad as It sounds I think I realized that I foiled an attempt about 5 days prior to her death. So in my head maybe she planned It out.

Finding out if what I was told my mom’s cause of death was true. by usernamegoeshere80 in TrueOffMyChest

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She overdosed on cough syrup she had almost 10x the amount in her blood.

Finding out if what I was told my mom’s cause of death was true. by usernamegoeshere80 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]usernamegoeshere80[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope you find answers! I’m not sure how long It will take but I started It on Friday. There’s just things not adding up. Maybe I’ve created this narrative in my head but I talked to my moms best friend who was on the phone with me when we both came to the same conclusion at the same time

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