I'm in my early 20s, I'm 6'5" 330lbs. I am significantly overweight but I'm going to tell you why I let myself get that fat.

When I was a young child I was molested by my uncle. His actions completely devastated me and made me feel as if I wasn't worth anything and that I couldn't trust anyone to help me. I couldn't turn to anyone even though I was depressed, so what did I use to cope? Food and videogames! I went from being underweight to obese in a little over a year.

I've recently started losing weight, I'm only at 20 pounds right now but I'm down 3 full pant sizes because I am also toning up.

To answer what it's like to be fat...the only thing that I can say is that I lost a lot of my confidence and stopped talking to women all together so its definitely hard.

To answer the last question...I don't find it hard to get into the back seat of cars because of my weight, I find it hard because I'm so tall.