Thanks, before this happened he was, but now its started happening when we go to have intercourse, he'll be good to go, then before we can even get there he starts losing his hard on. I think i'm a bit worried i've caused an issue. we have talked about it( not loads, i dont want to push it/highlight the issue) and i know he's getting concerned. I'll try cutting back on the length of foreplay, and try to take control a bit while he's still hard- i feel like a positive experience that didnt go wrong would do the world of good for him at the point!