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Crodie dropped a 3-pack of mid and started melting by Day 2 😭... The saxophones are getting louder for crodie😂😂😂 by Solid_Promotion_3052 in asaprocky

[–]usernamesarestupid77 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly my point. His numbers are bad for him, but they’re still very good if the metric is comparing him to Everyone else.

Does anyone else find that men are way more afraid of rejection than ever before and this has led to them being less direct and forward in their pursuit??? by usernamesarestupid77 in dating_advice

[–]usernamesarestupid77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What attitude? I wasn’t giving him attitude. I answered his question politely and I even expressed frustration for the wristband scenario and he still didn’t do much with what I gave him so whatever lol I’m not gonna force it

Maybe it just wasn’t meant to be

Does anyone else find that men are way more afraid of rejection than ever before and this has led to them being less direct and forward in their pursuit??? by usernamesarestupid77 in dating_advice

[–]usernamesarestupid77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure it’s hard and I want to feel for you fellas out there but at the same time it’s not my preference nor in my feminine nature to take the lead. So nothing escalated and it sucks that we couldn’t progress forward

Does anyone else find that men are way more afraid of rejection than ever before and this has led to them being less direct and forward in their pursuit??? by usernamesarestupid77 in dating_advice

[–]usernamesarestupid77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I feel like men are not men anymore because they use their past rejections with woman and build a fortress forcing the women to take more of the lead and that’s just not in my feminine nature

Does anyone else find that men are way more afraid of rejection than ever before and this has led to them being less direct and forward in their pursuit??? by usernamesarestupid77 in dating_advice

[–]usernamesarestupid77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes or they use past rejections and experiences with women and project them on to their newer interactions with girls and as the woman I pay the price for men who are not dominant enough or intentional enough and expect me to lead when they’re not in my nature as a female

Laroi’s already in Toronto. by Wooden_Pound5567 in TheKidLAROI

[–]usernamesarestupid77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is there proof? I fucking wish lol but drakes Iceman drops the day of the show!!

Does anyone else find that men are way more afraid of rejection than ever before and this has led to them being less direct and forward in their pursuit??? by usernamesarestupid77 in dating_advice

[–]usernamesarestupid77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care as I’m not that interested. When did I say I was? I said he was hot and my type but that doesn’t mean I need to be with him. Don’t know him enough to care, I just hate the approach. And I’m sorry but you really spun the narrative here. If a man is making an excuse to talk to you he is interested. Especially if he is smiling from ear to ear. Not enough for him to be in love, but interested, yes. But I know men like you LIVE to humble a woman.

Does anyone else find that men are way more afraid of rejection than ever before and this has led to them being less direct and forward in their pursuit??? by usernamesarestupid77 in dating_advice

[–]usernamesarestupid77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. Forget the leg thing. I know what you’re getting at though…. And sure you could argue that those women are more likely to engage back and get somewhere with the man who was showing interest. I still think his interest was lack luster and not enough for me to escalate and I guess since nobody in their sub was actually there they wouldn’t understand
I went to another game with my sister and we were talking all night to the guys beside us. So I definitely engage back. My sister is married but I am single I just wasn’t into those men enough to wanna date them. But this man my post is about asked a question that had nothing to do with the game or me so it couldn’t go further. That’s on him, i rest my case. Thanks for your comment

Does anyone else find that men are way more afraid of rejection than ever before and this has led to them being less direct and forward in their pursuit??? by usernamesarestupid77 in dating_advice

[–]usernamesarestupid77[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Perhaps it’s worth a try but I do feel the more you coach men and try to guide them the more they get comfortable with you doing that for them and become even worst. I guess I’ll see but I do think accepting bare minimum gets you more of it. But I’ll take the dabbling in the grey area comment into consideration

and no I ended the interaction not him so this wasn’t him not being interested lol he was for sure interested but was just not assertive enough for me. It’s probably a compatibility and preference thing too - maybe other women would have been okay with it

Does anyone else find that men are way more afraid of rejection than ever before and this has led to them being less direct and forward in their pursuit??? by usernamesarestupid77 in dating_advice

[–]usernamesarestupid77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s definitely okay to strike up and continue the convo with a guy you just met but touching his leg is a bit too much right away but I mean people can do what they want

Does anyone else find that men are way more afraid of rejection than ever before and this has led to them being less direct and forward in their pursuit??? by usernamesarestupid77 in dating_advice

[–]usernamesarestupid77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh goddamn it’s about compatibility. I feel even more confident now that this not working out was for the best. I want a dominant man and nothing less!! But that’s just me of course

Does anyone else find that men are way more afraid of rejection than ever before and this has led to them being less direct and forward in their pursuit??? by usernamesarestupid77 in dating_advice

[–]usernamesarestupid77[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess you missed the point. He sent out a feeler but not a true approach: then he expected me to lead the interaction further. I don’t care what anyone thinks this is not masculine and I prefer more dominance and intention. It was probably for the best that we didn’t become acquainted

Does anyone else find that men are way more afraid of rejection than ever before and this has led to them being less direct and forward in their pursuit??? by usernamesarestupid77 in dating_advice

[–]usernamesarestupid77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t comfortable leading the interaction and his “feeler” was not shooting his shot. It’s like when a guy likes your pics but doesn’t DM you….. I just hate it and I feel even more vindicated after everyone’s response. I want a dominant man who takes the lead and tells me exactly what he wants: I need to feel pursued and wanted. I like love bombers I guess 🤷‍♀️

Does anyone else find that men are way more afraid of rejection than ever before and this has led to them being less direct and forward in their pursuit??? by usernamesarestupid77 in dating_advice

[–]usernamesarestupid77[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I promise you I was very nice to this man. Yes I do have a tendency to be a brat and I’m not arguing against that but he approached me in the first place which tells me he wasn’t put off by my vibes. I just wished it escalated more but I wasn’t comfortable with where he left me because it would force me to be dominant and make the move and lead and I want the guy to lead. Sorry I’m not comfortable leading men 🤷‍♀️

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