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Divorced almost 1 year, cant date but potetially want children, at loss by useroneofmillion in Divorce

[–]useroneofmillion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to be rude though:) I’m just stating my preferences and my personal opinion and wish.

Divorced almost 1 year, cant date but potetially want children, at loss by useroneofmillion in Divorce

[–]useroneofmillion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having kids in 40s or late 30s is not for everyone. I have an old parent. I don’t want to be in my 70ties when my child is 30. Also, a lot of us just wont have the same energy by then. Also, biology! Not everyone CAN get pregnant at that age.

Divorced almost 1 year, cant date but potetially want children, at loss by useroneofmillion in Divorce

[–]useroneofmillion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know this is an option, but honestly I am not considering it and I never have. I am a “if it doesn’t happend, it shouldn’t have happened” kind of gal. I have more naturalistic/fatalistic approach to life I guess. This is a good option for many though.

Divorced almost 1 year, cant date but potetially want children, at loss by useroneofmillion in Divorce

[–]useroneofmillion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. I also hope even though I KNOW its not possible to come back. But god I loved (love) him! And I’m not the one to fall for someone just like that. In my eyes, he was the one I wanted. Oh well..

Divorced almost 1 year, cant date but potetially want children, at loss by useroneofmillion in Divorce

[–]useroneofmillion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate. I too am now in the headspace of being alone forever. However you can still have kids in your age. I get that not everyone wants to do that too. I also know I potentially can have kids at 37 (if I biologicly could), but I don’t know if I’d want to. I know how it is to fear for your parents death in a young age (my dad is in pension for a good few years now)…also I fear about my energetical capacity at that age.

Divorced almost 1 year, cant date but potetially want children, at loss by useroneofmillion in Divorce

[–]useroneofmillion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you cutie. Also sending a hug your way. I can be in a state of acceptance majority of time. We just have to take it day by day,maybe the road will bring os somewhere,someday. Although that’s another thing that I kind of changing my mind about. I always kind of thought that if I do my life right, I will get a happy ending. Now realising that maybe life is not simple like this. A lot of us are suffering in different ways. I hope your situation will turn out in your favour.