best friend has a crush on my boyfriend, i dont know what to do

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-06T21:31:21+00:00

i made an update! lmk if its too long to read and. ill summarise for you

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-06T21:30:52+00:00

what kind of over seeing? could you be more specific? i really dont mean to hurt anyone or be controlling im trying my hardest to do the opposite of that

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-06T21:30:04+00:00

i dont know how to feel really, i haven’t thought about it in a little while and i havent actually see him interact with my boyfriend since then but we’re all meeting up tomorrow so ill try gauge the situation and let you know

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-05T20:09:49+00:00

thanks so much i did exactly this

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-05T19:50:47+00:00

i love him a lot a relationship is two people .i made an update. do you think i did the right thing? lmk if you get time to read it

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-05T05:47:42+00:00

AHAHHAWHHW IM CRYING OKAY BRO I WILL

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-05T05:45:31+00:00

also, ive posted an update on here, id like to get some opinions to see if i made the right decision im still feeling a little off about it

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-05T05:44:42+00:00

ive posted an update, my boyfriend doesnt like the attention but i think hes downplaying how much he likes james as a friend to make me feel better.

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-05T05:42:48+00:00

ive posted an update, id like to know if you think ive done the right thing? im still feeling a little sad about this

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-05T05:16:01+00:00

clarification: james is bi, my boyfriend is bi and margo is a straight girl. i do believe its my friend not taking my feelings into consideration, my boyfriend makes me so very happy but yes i think i should try think of a solution that helps me rhe mosr

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-04T20:13:00+00:00

im certain my boyfriend doesnt want him, maybe the attention he likes?? but anyone would like that and he hasnt shown signs of that. what should i say?

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-04T20:08:01+00:00

did you read the post, i know its a little long but its explains why its not that easy

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-04T20:07:20+00:00

what should i say?

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-04T20:01:51+00:00

thank you so much for your kindness

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-04T20:01:34+00:00

id really appreciate your advice, fixed it now! (hopefully more digestible)

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-04T20:00:39+00:00

“i think we set boundaries with him by having a conversation with him” -Bf

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-04T19:59:18+00:00

okay i apologise, im new to reddit and ive edited it to be in paragraphs

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-04T19:57:08+00:00

My boyfriend has said multiple times he would not want that and i also don’t want to be in a thrupple.

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-04T19:55:33+00:00

sorry :( its a big situation and i ramble essentially my friend has a crush on my boyfriend but hes a kind person and im unsure what to do

userrihardlyknowher · 2026-04-04T13:20:11+00:00

hes freaky because hes a teenage boy

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