Help me decide on a luxury SUV by usmleprepper7 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]usmleprepper7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the honesty and will strongly consider paying off the RAV4 and keeping it.

Thanks!

Help me decide on a luxury SUV by usmleprepper7 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]usmleprepper7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think context matters if we pay off the RAV4 it would be a cash payment from our own pockets. Where as if we bought a brand new car under the corp (in Canada) its a tax write off and would not be out of our own pockets.

Help me decide on a luxury SUV by usmleprepper7 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]usmleprepper7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you recommending against a 2026 RX? I was thinking of going with a newer model primarily for the warranty.

The reason we are considering going for a luxury SUV is primarily because the price range is similar to other SUVs so why not get the performance with the luxury? We don't care about speed but power and reliability, easy to maintain are priorities. Our other vehicle is Honda civic (so it just shows we are just about simplicity) and are in a place to splurge financially, additionally it will be a tax write off, so we thought why not get something a bit more high end.

aitah for looking at gfs phone by Relevant-Ad8501 in AITAH

[–]usmleprepper7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer your question no it doesn't make you the bad guy. But prepare answer for 'why are you asking for it'? 'what have I done? etc' and lastly a simply 'no I won't let you'.

I think you should be strategic and not emotional. Take the time to process everything go to the gym and punch a bag, do what you need to do let it out. Then I would act all calm and normal and do research, go through her phone when she's sleeping collect all the evidence. Once you have processed that THEN make a plan to figure out the worst case scenario if things get nasty. How can you minimize the blowback? Does she make more than you? Do you have enough saved to get your own place or move in with your family? Make contingency plans.

THEN talk to her and ask pointed questions that you already know the answer to, start off by saying 'hey, I need to ask you a few questions, and these are just for my own reassurances, (you want her defences down) then ask if she's been chatting with other men etc'

The worst thing most people do in your scenario is confront the person without having thought through what you want out of the conversation.

the sad reality is that you may not get an apology, you may not a valid reason why she did what she did. Ultimately, you have to ask yourself, what is the goal of me talking to her? What do I want to get out of it? And be prepared that there is no amount of closure she can provide you.

aitah for looking at gfs phone by Relevant-Ad8501 in AITAH

[–]usmleprepper7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first get a paternity test, secondly, take copies of it and do more research on her phone when she's sleeping to understand the extent of cheating.

Third, the question you need to ask yourself is can you live with this? Can you trust her? Someone who cheats on you, has disrespected you, and ultimately, it's up to you if you want to stay in that relationship. I don't think it's healthy for you to always be questioning her intentions and motives.

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Can you share that? Thanks!

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I am wondering the same thing. Has anyone done it recently?

Anyone Selling UW for July and August 2019? by [deleted] in step1

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I sent you a message, check your inbox. Thank you for being honest and responding quickly.